I've been with this girl -unsure for almost 4/5 years. Along the way there's always quarrel and misunderstanding. Even if I'm not wrong, I'm always the one saying sorry just to make things 'normal' again. She has a weird personality and is always cranky(eg get upset over very small matter and super cautious). Have tried to break up many times but unsuccessful -surr . Maybe my heart is too fragile-innocent2 . I was thinking of breaking up with her but don't know how to word it -boat . Any wise word and timing as to soften up the blow? I'm open to all suggestion. Thanks.
Prolly should consult ur close friends and not randoms dude. I'd say if you've tried to break up with someone "many times" you've already given yourself the answer you need. You probably dont want to be with her, and if u are, you shouldnt be because if you really have love someone you wont try to break up with them "many times"... Thats my 2 cents.
I don't get it, if you guys have tried to break up so many times then why are you still together. Who's the one who always ends up mending things back together? Anyways if you really wanted to break up then you should do it already, just tell her the truth about why and then move on.
There are really no good words to add when breaking up. It seems like something you definately have to do. "Just imagine what will happen if u marry her, you're done and done" You might want to be blunt and start off by saying something like this next time she gets pissed off at you for little things "Look, we've been down this road many times and I just can't stand it anymore. I've had enough....maybe it's best for both of us to move on to our own seperate ways. We've given our efforts but there are some things we can force. I know we've been together for a long time but I feel that that chapter in my life is coming to an end. Hopefully we can remain friends and i wish you the best of luck finding that special person in your life. Heck you deserve it"
It sounds like it's YOU who wants to break up...doesn't seem like it's because of fear of a broken heart. Get some balls and just do it. If you hate her, there's no better way than getting another girl, going out with said girl, and having sex with her in your ex-to-be's bed. Make sure she sees you guys making out on her bed though, that's the most important part.
heartcollector...that's not only vial but in foul taste. In addiction, this fella doesn't seem to have the guts to do such a thing. Reading from his post, u can get a sense for what he's like.
hhmm .. sounds like you are too nice of a guy? or trying to be? well, i guess there are no good words or ways to break up. it's a matter of how you handle it. if you act like a guy and be man to say it out loud rather than letting just silently fades off, then maybe, just maybe, you guys can still be friends (of course, since you said she's got a weird temper, it's highly unlikely).
does any of ur friends like her? or if u know a guy that she likes more than u. If so, then tell the guy to hang out with her, and make her leave u, instead of u leavbing her. it would make u the good person, not the bad person in the breakup. If u still want to be friends, then tell her lets be friends then. Girl will always want the guy that she date with to be long lasting friends. If u want her to be out of ur life, then act angry.
ha. If u want to git rif of her easy!!! Start touchin her all over the place and treat her like a sex object. Try it out and tell us how it went. P>S. I'm not reponsible if u get slaped LOL
how about the classic line..... "It's not you. It's me. I think we want different things from our relationship right now." blah blah blah
however way decide to do it please do not break up with her over computer as in msn, skype, yahoo messenger, mobil phone, txt msg or phone call. break up with her face to face is always a better / BEST option and like the say short pain is better than long pain so do it soon no point leaving it longer and longer
You've been together for a long time. If you are not in love with her yet then you should definitely break up and not waste each other's time. Just sit down and talk with her. Don't break her heart and do anything stupid. If you tell her the truth she will understand. You should not make up lies. It might be hard to do, but it's straight forward. You can do it!
