Broken Relationships will it work? (broken engagement)

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by n4mele5s, Sep 25, 2011.

  1. n4mele5s

    n4mele5s Well-Known Member

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    So if a guy decided to leave the girl who he engaged with all of a sudden. Do you guys think that this relationship will last if both parties were to get back together?
     
  2. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    hard to say if u really love someone n ur being dumped, would you go back? being engaged and dumped is even worse cuz then the engagement was off.... going back means losing ur pride... he better have a good excuse! imo, people break up for a reason (not counting the petty fights where u say ur breaking up n making up the next day or whatever)... I assume if a guy breaks up with me he did some thorough thinking on it and he made a decision so i probably wouldnt go back.... conclusion: i dont think it will work... u can fix a thing thats broken but the chances that they're gonna be the same as before are slim...
     
  3. mr_evolution

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    well depends the reason why he broke off?

    cheating?
    nerves?
    money problem?
    personal issues?
     
  4. n4mele5s

    n4mele5s Well-Known Member

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    to reply back to the question is going thru mid life crisis
     
  5. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    it's never going to be the same as before...
     
  6. that's risky.. if they want to part ways before they marry.. whats gonna happen when they do marry..
     
  7. n4mele5s

    n4mele5s Well-Known Member

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    Indeed, I have no respect for such a person especially when they are the ones purposing to the girl. Like come on! 25 year old saying hes going to mid life crisis
     
  8. ab289

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    I wouldn't even go back to my ex ... there's a reason why people don't get together. The reason doesn't just go away just because the 2 people got separated for awhile. Sooner or later, it'll creep back up ...

    but that's just me ...
     
  9. ackm99

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    It really depends what the original reason for the guy leaving in the first place was. I have 2 great friends with the guy breaking off their engagement before...but they got back together and they've been happily together again for over 2 years now. If you think the guy is worth it and whatever reason it was is now solved entirely, then it's worth a try and see how it plays out.
     
  10. n4mele5s

    n4mele5s Well-Known Member

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    midlife crisis
     
  11. 23 n going thru a midlife crisis.. but trust me i still deliver like a midwife..
     
  12. n4mele5s

    n4mele5s Well-Known Member

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    huh? lol
     
  13. AsianGrin

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    Things will never be the same as it used to be. But if you 2 believe things will work out in the end ... And you both work together at rebuilding that love of yours--There is still that chance. My boyfriend and I broke up after 2 years of being together ... I'll never forget that day that I broke into tears. But we are back together ... It took awhile to find that love we once had. Things have changed, but for the better ... Our relationship is much stronger now. Communication is an important factor ... Talk things out--Don't keep things locked up inside of you to the point where you'll burst as you've had enough.