Brother and Bestfriend

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by hana, Jul 30, 2012.

  1. hana

    hana Member

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    im in college and i live off campus with my brother and one of my best friend.

    about 6 months ago, my best friend told me that my brother confessed to her. the reasons she told me was 1) because we're best friends and there no secret between me and her 2) because she was hoping that im ok with what is happening and it didnt effect out friendship. at that point of time, i am ok with what is happening and i hope that they would get together and hopefully that they are meant together and get marry. cuz having your best friend as you sis-in-law thought is awesome. i did try to convince her that she should try out the relationship with my bro cuz you'll never know! but convincing failed. she have a commitment problem.

    but just about 2 months ago, and im probably going to hell for saying this, but i want them to be apart! they never were together at first so im trying to get my brother to give up on her. 1) because he is spending too much time and energy on her 2) my best friend is getting annoy with him trying to boss her around like he is her's boyfriend 3) im getting annoy as well because they fight all the time (verbally) and sometime i am dragged into the arguments because i am close to both of them and im always in the middle trying to brake them apart from the fights.

    about 1 weeks ago (around July 21st) they had another fights and this time is between TWO of my best friends v.s. my brother. im trying to break them apart but try to keep the inner peace at the same time. at the end they did break apart and stop arguing but now they are not talking to each other. i really couldnt handle the atmosphere so i went back home instead (1.5 hrs away from my school). after that, my best friend who my brother like is "semi upset-mad" at me cuz i ran away when she needed me the most. but after having a long discussion with her, i think shes find now....i think....

    so im going back to my school next week and i want to ask you guys on what should i do? i want the old time back when we all can joke around, laugh, watch movies, etc.

    if you guys want to know the zodiac:
    me: Leo
    brother: Leo
    BFF that my brother like: Sagittarius

    i get along with my best friend quite well, we are very close...close to the point that my brother once thought that im a lesbian -___-

    on the other hand, me and my brother are close in a way and apart in another. he like to boss people around telling people what to do (a trait of a Leo) but i hate that and like to be free (as so a trait of a Leo)

    so guys please help me!!!!!! i want all 4 of us to get along again. what should i do?
     
  2. hana

    hana Member

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    sorry for the long post, but i really need help
     
  3. gamer123

    gamer123 Well-Known Member

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    does your best friend have a brother?
     
  4. hana

    hana Member

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    she does. but hes younger.
     
  5. ken ducati

    ken ducati Active Member

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    If something like this happen to me would be okay. Actually back in high school it did happen to me when a good friend went after my sister.