Call, Txt or Do Nothing?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Jay22098, Jul 7, 2009.

  1. Jay22098

    Jay22098 Well-Known Member

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    I met this girl who's 4 years younger than me at a nightclub. 5 days later I text her asking if she wants to come out for a drink someday. 2 days have passed and she's still not text back. Should I text again, call her or don't do anything? I don't want to make it seem as if I'm desperate or anything nor do I want to miss this opportunity. What should I do?
     
  2. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    ^dont call or text again.... if shes interested she will reply.... if not...then tough luck...
     
  3. casshern

    casshern Well-Known Member

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    lol 2 days? She's obviously not that into you. Don't do anything now.
     
  4. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    People like MissCheek is just trying to play hard to get .. gals like it if you call them up rather than a simple text even if you meant to be a friendly thing.. after all, ya'll just met at a club; don't know much about another, and if ya'll are sober at the club...lol

    I say .. go for it if you like her .. no more text, call her directly. If you get rejected, then at least you'll know the answer. Why keep wondering when the answer is only a phone call away?
     
  5. zxorated

    zxorated Active Member

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    i wouldn't worry or be bothered with her anymore till she texts or calls you back. she's a young girl that u met at a club... that right there should not be too serious. best is just dont dwell on it and if u see her again u see her.
     
  6. Flames

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    Damn it dude....is it that hard to see the message of, "I'm not interested in you?!?!"
    It's as big as the big red words about the download section....
     
  7. Aoes

    Aoes Well-Known Member

    don't call if u don't get a reply... actually... u probably fcked up by txting her in the first place... shoulda called... get the answer straight up...
     
  8. Shini_D

    Shini_D Well-Known Member

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    Lol, did you punch in the right numbers?
    Better yet, does she even know it was YOU who was texting her? For all she knows your just someone random and she doesnt know your the guy from the club.

    But yeah, if all that isnt the problem, then she's just not that into you...

    Sorry to burst ya bubble.
    x
     
  9. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Lol...excuse me? lol.... u know me that well u think eh....? *shrugs*
    I just said that he shouldnt call her cuz he wasnt getting any respond to his text... if she was interested hed know by now....
    for what its worth, maybe she didnt even give him her real nr..... yeah...girls do that sometimes
     
  10. [mJ9]

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    ^hahaha,that's true

    don't do anything because she's not into you...but..i doesn't hurt to try calling her
     
  11. KaY_xD

    KaY_xD 但願人長久,千里共嬋娟

    (skipping all the BS i wanna say)

    Final Conclusion: Find another young hottie next time. Tons of underage girls are flowing around. Like what others already said ----------- She's just not that into you.
     
  12. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Opportunity for?
     
  13. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    choo choo
     
  14. she wasn't into you, move on.
     
  15. [N]

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    lol you met her at a night club so i guess if you want a str8 answer just call, its not like its gonna change anything if she doesnt want to see you again.
     
  16. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    underage?? i hope you're not 16 and she's 12 or something .. if that's the case, i take back everything i said .. go ask your papa and mama...
     
  17. Jay22098

    Jay22098 Well-Known Member

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    lol, im 24.
     
  18. bbgirlsum

    bbgirlsum Well-Known Member

    if you have met from a nightclub she was probably drunk out of her mind and do not quite remember who you are
    so i won't do anything at all :)
    waste of credit or your free minutes/text :p
     
  19. Natsu

    Natsu Well-Known Member

    shouldve called in the first place to be honest for more clarification on what you want to do. dont bother and move on
     
  20. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    i guess you're the shy type .. who wanna ask her but can't take rejection so pick the text message method .. sad .. ain't gonna work especially for someone you met in the club. gals at the club usually go for the confident type if not loaded type of guy ... lol

    95% of the gals at the club are not marriage potential .. sex buddy .. yes .. lol