Can someone help

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by joe2movies, Oct 30, 2006.

  1. joe2movies

    joe2movies Active Member

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    I am sorta dating this girl. She has experienced dating before and i don't know if it is because she is afraid it might be the same with me but like she is giving me a chance. We even hold hands in the car when we drive. She let's me hold her hand & i told her that i'm in no rush to get her answer as to when we will make it official.

    Do u think she has an interest in me & will give me a chance eventually?
     
  2. kabukiman

    kabukiman Member

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    Official, is that when she lets you do her or so you can say to freinds, you're an item?
     
  3. to me u guys sound official already... u don't have to get a mega phone n call out to everyone she's ur gf... just keep holding her hand n the car n try to hold her hand outside of the car too... n sooner or later someone will c n u become official...

    u can't b too soft to women... sometimes u need to push them a bit... u don't ask a woman "can i hold ur hand" or "can i kiss u?"... u just do it when the moment comes...
     
  4. Peacemaker

    Peacemaker Well-Known Member

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    how are u supposed to drive, when u are holding hands with Your gal? o_O
    better change that attitude, except u have a driver
    and if You´re together, You are together,... it´s just a feeling both sides should have,... it´s some kinda childish idea " to make it official" ur mates and people around You will find it out by themselves sooner or later.
    but if You need a hand Dawn´s the perfect person to announce Your relationship and spread it throughout PA and further :D
     
  5. yarg11

    yarg11 Well-Known Member

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    I think what joe2movies meant about being "official" mean being in exclusive relationship.

    You should find out, just because you go out with a girl and hold her hand doesn't mean your in an exclusive realationship.
     
  6. ipepsi

    ipepsi Well-Known Member

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    What is official?
    holding hands don't mean you together.
    I have done it many times, You have to ask her and make sure,
    so in the end u won't be mad. Just ask.
     
  7. grab her hand and slowly bring it to your pants... -lol

    lol wtf...
     
  8. Ank

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    I think u WILL have a chance most gurls don't grab your hand so easily (some will, "sl*ts") so u go for it. But not too fast...
     
  9. AVANT

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    What world do you live in? Because over here, it's very common to hold hands and have give a good-bye kiss on the first date.

    So hold off calling girls "sl*ts"... -nono

    To joe, she's either playing you, or you really do have a chance. So you need to figure it out fast. To find out... stop giving her all the power.

    "because she is afraid it might be the same with me but like she is giving me a chance."
    "She let's me hold her hand"
    "i'm in no rush to get her answer as to when we will make it official"

    In your brief statement, 1/2 of it was about how you are giving the girl all the power. Hot girls are use to guys drooling and bowing down for them, learn to be a man and truly express that you don't give a damn what she thinks of you. Also act like you are the freaking catch, not her. If you can manage that while still being laid back and fun, you won't be able to pry her away from you ;)

    Lastly, don't title seek, it shows her that she's the only one you are interested in and that you have no options. This will drive most women away.
     
  10. zippyw8

    zippyw8 Well-Known Member

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    as long as she knows you are not just another friend to her, then it's all good. however, as a guy, you should make the move...how much of a move is up to you.

    just remember if you wait too long, it may turn into another friendship...



     
  11. mingming2006

    mingming2006 Well-Known Member

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    hilarious :D
     
  12. yea those freakin' sluts.. grabbin your hand with their bacteria infested, hot sauce, chilli having hands.. leave your hands smellin like a burrito...
     
  13. dream4everwest

    dream4everwest Well-Known Member

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    if u two see each other on a daily basis in a public area, i dun see how ur not considered official already...of course if ur friends are friends like mine.....so when u announce ur an item, u prolly have to get the check for dinner....hey, rather that than they tease u forever for it