Can't Get Over Him

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by michelle chau, Feb 21, 2008.

  1. michelle chau

    michelle chau Member

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    i thought he was telling me the truth this time but i guess i was wrong about him again my sister told me he was a good guy and i look up too my sister so i trust her but now she is telling me he is a player i went out with him 3 times it never worked out i never did let go of him he still likes me but i think its cause of my body i really don't know really why does he like me but i hope it aint for all the wrong reason but i just got this feeling it is what the fuck should i do? if i can't get over a guy like him -cry2
     
  2. gather a few of ur girl friends n get out of town for a couple of weeks... or just tell him not to contact for a few weeks... u need some time without him or talking/writing/thinking abt to clear up ur head a little... ur too confused rite now... -hug
     
  3. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    listen to urself first and foremost...u have this feeling that tells u this guy is no good.
    it's always hard in the beginning but time will fix all. life moves on....eventually.
    besides, why be with a guy that u know isn't really with u cause he truly loves u
    anyways? u can do better! rather be single then be with a douche.
     
  4. champ91

    champ91 Well-Known Member

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    if he likes u, he'll like u no matter what. even if u are fat and ugly, he'll still like u

    if he doesn't give u any assurance or security, then probably not going to work
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    #4 champ91, Feb 21, 2008
    Last edited: Mar 12, 2011
  5. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    What makes you think hes not being honest with you?
     
  6. definitly try to take some time away from the guy, after awhile it wouldn't be so bad.
     
  7. 1234566

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    Its painful to not be able to get over someone but its better if u do
     
  8. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    stop thinkin about him..avoid him...delte him from your contacts....find other guts
     
  9. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Contrary to what common belief, it is determined by psychologists that when you concentrate on in trying no to think of something or someone, you end up thinking even more about it. ;)
     
  10. misztracey

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    ^ omgahd explains why i tried to forget about someone i was talkin to nd we stopped talkin cos of some stuff nd.....it was hard. haha well michellle....if yu tried it 3times nd yu still like him......try once more.....if it doesnt work....den yu'll knoe.
     
  11. omg... can't believe i'm actually agreeing with this guy... -shock

    hahaha... yeah it's gonna b harder if u just sit in a room n do nothing but tell urself to forget abt the guy... but if she gets rid of all contacts with the guy n hang out with her gf more n not talk abt him whith the girls it's a lot easier... worked for me... but it won't happen over night...
     
  12. michelle chau

    michelle chau Member

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    The problem with this is im in highschool and he and me see each other in the hall ways every single day so that bugs me alot and i would be able to let him go if i didn't had to sit behind him in english and he wouldn't stop truning around i know he aint a good guy because he flurt with like every girl he see and i really don't know everything is so messed up right now
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  13. awwww... can't u sit some where else?? all ur seats r allocated??
     
  14. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol i kinda understand how u feel, u try and get over him, but then randomly, u think of him, or when you talk to someone, u suddenly find yourself thinking bout him,
    陌生的環境,, 陌生的事情,陌生的人, 我不知道,都很像你。 lol
     
  15. hey its another michelle.. -lol

    just sleep with him one time.. go for it! then the events after will lead to you forget about him..
     
  16. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    aaaaaaahhhh.....high school.....it's stories like these that reminds me about how much i do not wanna go back...

    michelle: do NOT take ecko's advice!!! NOT GOOD! -nono
     
  17. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol, ecko, i dont think she wants to be a slut, but anyway, a new start is very hard if you love the guy , but eventually, u'll have to face it, if he really is a bad person, you could choose to be with him or not be with him, its how much you love him ^^. but seriously, u should consider a new start, if hes a player then ur like nothing to him
     
  18. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Hmmm..... could it be because you are still at an early age of the relationship that you feel insecure about him and that he is flirtatious?

    Based on what you told us so far, it doesnt really give us a detailed picture of him... what exactly do you mean by flirtatious and how is he towards you? Lukewarm? Uncaring? Jerk?....
     
  19. u must b the guy michelle's talking abt -bash
     
  20. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    ecko's such a joker. anyway best thing to do is keep ur mind preoccupied on other things. just ignore him and see how he reacts. then decide what u want to do. lol.