Would you guys help me out abit about my story. I know this 1 canto girl which is my friend, she have been my friend since 2 years ago. But I haven't seen her for a year already, and now when I went back to my school in the summer, I didn't know that she was there also. But when I saw her and she saw me, she acted like she didn't know me or something. I tried to walk behind her and tap her and say 'hi', but then she walked in a different direction with her other canto friends. When I walked by her, she kind of looks at me, but she didn't smile or say anything. I was kinda piss about it. So then I didn't smile either. <_< Could you guys help me what I should do about that situation? Cuz she IS nice, and everytime she always say hi to me, AT LEAST. Now since I see her this year, I kind of hate it. Cuz she just chat and laugh with her other canto friends and didn't talk to me, AT ALL.... Right now I am SUPER PISS! And wish that I didn't know her. I hope that not ALL canto girls are like her, if I were their friends in the past. I hope that they didn't treat me this way ever. I had some canto girls friend in the past, but they were nice and STILL talk to me.
Guys are traditionally suppose to make the first move. If what you say is true, then she isn't talking to you because you were not of her interest at the moment. She's hanging out with her friends! Don't over analyze, she meant you no harm. If you walked up and say "Hey (Her name here), how ya been?", eventually crack a couple jokes and move on to your next class. I'm sure both her friends and her will respond positively. Oh, and don't "tap" a girl on her shoulder to get her attention, that lets them know (hi, I'm timid and scared, and can't approach you like a man). Think about it... why "tap"? A tap is light to a point where it can be ignored or not felt, it is a wusses way of leaving himself an out so he can remain "unnoticed" if he messes up. You can't really mess up a "hello", so just go for it! Why be reactive about the smile instead of being proactive about it? Make her smile instead of expecting her to smile. If she was purposely ignoring you tho, then you need to confront her anyways and figure out what happened (or you'll probably over analyze that too -lol)
One thing, I'm a girl! >.< So I don't think I would want to do it that way. LOLOL! Thanks for the comment though. That would be a negative move for me to do. -_-2
First of all, what does the "canto" part have anything to do with the way "friends" are supposed to treat each other? The last time I checked, nationality has nothing to do with friendship. Can someone clear this up for me? -what? As for your problem, not to put you down or anything but if that's the way she treats you then perhaps she no longer views you as a friend. Perhaps during the whole time period that you girls didn't see each other, she changed. This stuff happens all the time. I say forget about her and move on with life. You've got other friends don't you? These types of people are seriously not worth your getting angry over. If she doesn't care about your feelings then why should you care about hers? And no, not ALL canto girls are like this. Heck, I'm canto and I don't ever recall treating any of my friends like this. If she really were a friend, she wouldn't avoid you the way she did...or is.
i hope u read this coz i hate when i type things and no one reads them like why the question and not read the answer anyway plz write back to me u have A- get new friends B- corner her and ask her why are u doin this(BUT BECAREFUL SOMETIMES THE TRUE CAN HURT I NO THIS ALL TO WELL AND sorry bout the cap lock LOLOLOL if this does not work there are c, d and e but a and b work well good luck
thanks for the comment. I know that canto doesn't have to do anything with it. Good thing you say that, cuz I know that our ppl isn't like that. I just say that mostly cuz most ppl, and that is MOST ppl say that canto girls mostly ignored or act something like that. Heck, I'm canto too. And I sometimes DO ignore ppl, to tell you the truth. But to her as a friend, if she sees it that way. Then oh well, I DO should just get over it. But I just don't get why she would of act this way. It's sort of strange of her to do that though. @kenji3819: Don't worry, I always read replies from members that post in my thread. I WILL reply to you. Thanks for the comment also. But I don't know if I could ever talk to her privately. Anyways, her friendship could be a good 2 years. I guess it don't matter now. -smart
WOW damnnn!!!!! you proved my theory wrong... my sister is also on this forum somewhere and i said that anyone with pic of girls is automatically a dude LMAO!!
Buzz off!!! Not all ppl have to same type of style. -dead And that is true, members with guys pic is a girl MOSTLY, and with girls pic is a guy MOSTLY. Not all.
so did yall even keep in touch... probably she jus feels like yall ain't hang out in awhile and dunno if you still consider her a friend...
hmm now for some harsh reality... she could be ignoring you coz well, maybe ur not hot enuff for her...(yes that is mean and no i don't know what you look like but i am just saying a big if!) plus she could be just one bitchy girl... when i used to be all cliquey, i would totally be like her. if i am not with my clique, i would say hi and chat, but if i am with them and i don't need anything from you, good luck in gettine me to even look in your direction! and yeah, don't tap girls on the shoulder, it gets to be a bit creepy.... especially if you are in the middle of a conversation with some other people. but i have to say if a really really hot guy ( i am talking about someone like takeshi kaneshiro, daniel henny, rain, etc) tapped me on the shoulder i wouldn't mind that at all!
First off i think your a bit confused cuz the person who posted this is actually a girl. So I doubt the girl didn't talk to her cuz she wasn't hot enough. and if Takeshi, Daniel, and Rain were to tap you on the shoulder... I think it would be because they want you to get the hell out of their way...
next time just smile at her politely... if she smiles back then u can keep talking... if she ignores u again then oh well... plenty of new fds out there
Just may be she didn't recognize u somehow...I think u should say hello then talk to her. Then she may regain the lost good memories with u fm the past!
i don't really care about this no more. I just ignored her and get on with my life, since we don't even talk to each other no more. anyways, i just hang out with my friends and started laughing with each other when she walk past. LOL! -rotfl
just ask she if she want to be your life friend.. just ask she..it always work. it work for me...hehe
The only advice I can offer is go up to her and say hi, I'm ________, do you remember me? We met last year.... blah blah blah." Based on her reaction, you will find out what's the issue. I hope you can salvage the relationship though.
