hi all hows it going just want some help with something and would like everyones veiw on this. if you are curantly seeing someone and they are texing another woman behind your back is it cheating.
it can be and it doesnt have to be maybe hes talking to like a really close friend and doesnt want you to see the convo =/ i mean in relationships theres always someone that hides something that they dont want to tell the other person
well it's not that he doesn't want you to know, but maybe that it isn't a big deal to him and that the other girl just happens to be a close friend to him. and if you found out, i'm sure he probably doesn't have anything to hide from you since if, and if he was cheating, say flirting or trying to get with her and not you, he would have done a better job hiding it from you. that was simply a blunt way of putting it, but i remember an article where even simply an IM over a messenger is considered "cheating" since they say that the person doing it is simply trying to live their fantasies with another person since the one they have cannot provide it, but this doesn't mean that they want to cheat on you, it's just a subconscious thing. you could say whatever you want to a person, but it does not necessarily mean that they are cheating on you. i remember i was told from a friend that flirting was ok as long as you know you love the person that you are with. he told me that it was a way to "keep your game up" and even help generate new ideas to spice up your love life with your special someone. see it more this way, if things were meant to be, then things will unfold in that favor i mean, true, someone in the relationship may hide things from the other, but eventually, they will open up to each other, maybe compromise if something is bothering one another hopefully this all helps heh, i've recently picked up a summer love and it's an interesting rollercoaster ride
seeing someone is not gf/bf status, so it's not really cheating i think theres still an element of lie and deception though, which means the only thing thats needed for it to be cheating would be committment?
