i dont know about you guys..but my dad is freaking childish it's insane. Whenever my mom yells at him for being lazy or tells him to do something, he turns around and takes his anger out on someone else...in other words..the children. He's like kids that ruins people's possessions when they piss them off...so he yells at my mom's important people..the children. Or if my mom doesn't spend enough time with him...he throws fits..and he puts up this act in front of my mom///and my mom knows he's having a tantrum and she just rolls her eyes...or even when he's waiting for the family to get ready to go out...he would be like "im not going anymore!!" right when we're dressed and stuff ...and then he'd go downstairs and pretend to do something..and we HAVE to go down and apologize and coo him into going out for dinner again...it's pathetic... in general..it's just so sad that some parents act like children when they're suppose to be the ones who are suppose to be more wise and understanding. They get so whiny and childish like when they're freaking 50 something years old. It's just despicable.
I TOTALLY understand you here.. don't worry..you're not the only one.. my dad is JUST like that as well... like my dad always thinks he's right.. if he's done something wrong.. or something goes wrong.. he always has to blame it on others, as if he's never at fault.. =_=!! oh wells.... as long as we kids ( xD) in this generation have learnt not to be like that..then its ok =P never too late for our dads to learn how to control their temper right =P ? nevertheless.. still love them^_^ they raised us up~ and gave us what we have now xD
Don't worry, one day you'll get big enough to say, Dad, why don't you grow the fuck up? The world doesn't start and stop with just you, you know? Generally, when their own kids gives them a brutal assessment like that, they tend to calm down. Ralph
OMGGGG I GET THIS A LOT TOOO.....I STARTED TO NOTICE IT MORE RECENTLY AS WELL....ITS LIKE THEY 'FAAN LO WAAN TUNG' ITS THE SAME WITH MY GRAN PARENTS AS WELL......CONSTANTLY ARGUING OVER THE SMALLEST THINGS.... LIKE ONE TIME MY KUNG KUNG PUT A CUP IN THE WRONG CUPBOARD MY POR POR INSISTED THAT KUNG KUNG BROKE IT...COZ HE COULDNT REMEMBER WHERE HE PUT IT.....FEW WEEKS LATER THEY FOUND IT AND MY POR POR WAS LIKE SEEEE....HE'S 'SOT JOR'... MY BABA IS THE SAME LIKE YESTERDAY WE ALL READY TO GO YUM CHA HE DECIDES HE DIDNT WANNA GO LAST MINUTE SO WE ALL HAD TO THE 'GO ON'...'IT'L BE FUN'....BLAH BLAH BLAH.....SOoOO ANNOYINGG.... AND WHEN MY MAMMI SEE'S SOMETHING THAT SHE MIGHT WANT SHE'LL NOT SAY ANYTHING BUT LOOK AT IT FOR AGES...
awwwwww bb your comment about your mom is cute LOL just looks at it? like a toddler??!! lol yeah if someone takes their anger on someone else its called Projection... its a defense mechanism that is categorized in psychology..... people do that all the time, my mom has that feeling too.... she doesn't like being wrong and she wants everything her way... and it is quite true what ralph has said.... i spoke back at my parents and took the beating when i was younger but as i got older i just naturally blocked their hits and defended myself..... i no longer have to take their shit... RAWR =]
^ Hahaha Its True Though.....one Time We Stopped At Them Service Stations My Mammi Wanted This Tub Of Candy Floss..but With It Being At A Service Station It Was Like £6 = $ 9.4 Usd....so She Didnt Want Us To Waste Our Money So She Just Kept Saying 'no Dont Buy It' Blah Blah.....and Coz We Were In A Rush Didnt Have Time To Queue Up To Pay For It.....my Mammi Just Kept Looking At It As We Walked Out The Shop It Was Ubbbbbber Cuteeeieeee.....
^ Hehehe....well Difference Being My Mammi...doesnt Really Like To Spoil Herself.... Thas Why Its Like Ubbbber Hard When Buying Her Birthday/xmas Presents Coz They Say They Dont Want Anything And Dont Want You To Waste Your Money...but Actually They Lub To Open Presents.... Its Like That Saying..'hao But Duy Sum' [mouth Not Match Heart] Or Something....^^
lol my mum broke my gameboy colour when i yelled at her:( i was playin it too much then she grabbed it and it dropped to the ground. how childish :(
hahahahah ur dad is jokes.....myabe u shoudl try leaving without him and then he'll run out the doorr
I'm a mom and I am childish. I fight with my 5 year old daughter over playing the Wii. When we get mad, we glare at each other (I do it because I think it's when i see her reaction). Sometimes I do get a mad and ignore her for a bit but then we apologize to each other 5 minutes later. After all she is just a little kid. If you were to look at us, you would probably think I'm the older sister picking on the little sister.
Hmm.. ur dad has sum issues i think u shud talk it out wtih him . coz im pretty sur he lubs the kkids and all jus maybe sum issues frum the past
pwahaha! My parents are so like that. Whenever I take too long my mom is like 'ARE YOU STILL GOING! TAKING SO LONG! I DON'T WANT TO GO ANYMORE!' but you know she totally wants to go so I'm like 'okay.' and then 5 mins later she asks 'do you still want to go?' hahaha! And my dad! He always tries to do things to make us laugh. For example, sometimes when I'm blasting my music or something he'll come in and do some weird dancing then look at me expecting me to laugh. LOL So I just laugh to make him happy. HAHAHA. And he always tries to sing along, but when I tell him to karaoke with me he always goes 'I don't know how to sing those songs!' when he clearly does and just doesn't want to because he's shy. And yeah, the whole taking out the anger thing.. my parents always do that. They always threaten to take away our computers tvs and game systems lol. Years ago my dad broke my gameboy advance because my brother wasn't listening to him. :( but it was mine!!
ughh. both my parents are just so immature sometimes!! and so unreasonable too. when we argue, they just spout ridiculousness!!
My parents do that too. It's just more frustrating now because as a child, you think it's natural for things to work out that way but now as an adult, you realize that it's not really healthy. The only problem is that no matter what I say or do, they can't really help themselves. It might be because of the generational gap in sciences-- knowledge of concepts like mental health was probably not as widespread for our parents' generation so they don't even have a concept for what they're doing, much less that it's not healthy.
Lol, my mom breaks down into some teenage girl and starts to crying when we are arguing. Im like wtf, its ur fault not mine...
yeap childesh parents totally get on my nerve i just sigh, roll my eyes and put up with it whenever it happens.
