Comments on your body

Discussion in 'The Rant Section' started by awwaves4ever, May 27, 2006.

  1. awwaves4ever

    awwaves4ever Well-Known Member

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    I hate it when people tell me that I need to eat more. Yes. I'm quite skinny for being a 21 year old. But damn it, I'm Vietnamese. It's in my genes to have a high metabolism or at least my dad's side of the family are all skinny. I think it's such an insult when people call me skinny or tell me that I need to eat more. I think it's almost as bad as someone calling you fat. There's no reason to give that kind of judgment. People tell me it's cuz it's the first thing that pops into their head or the first thing they notice about me. Seriously, I would feel so much more comfortable if they just keep their thoughts to themselves sometimes. I remember the chinese saying "if you don't say anything, no one will think that you can't speak", meaning that if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything. Iunno... maybe I'm just going a little overboard.
     
  2. or maybe you just eat too much pho... mmm pho... -drool.

    hey at least you can walk near fat people and have them jealous...
     
  3. supergirl

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    pho is so overrated!
    i hate it when people tell me to eat less. i never thought i'd get the horrid freshman 15 syndrome. but i did. people actually comment my swell figure and suggest i eat less. it's embarrassing. lmao
     
  4. Knoctur_nal

    Knoctur_nal |Force 10 from Navarone|

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    fuck em and roll as u fell....
     
  5. Airree

    Airree Well-Known Member

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    I hate it when people judge others bodies. I know that I'm fat. Not huge, but a little chubby (I just call it fat or borderline overweight). I have people actually telling straight to my face going, "You'd be prettier if you lost some weight." My family tells me at least once a day that I'm fat and that I should stop eating so much. You'd think that they would know that after years of them telling it to me, but no. Every single day they just have to remind me. I know how my body is and I'm comfortable with the way it is. If I want to lose weight, I will. If I'm hungry and I want to eat. I'm going to eat.

    It doesn't go exactly the same way for skinny people, but I think its similar. You know that you're skinny and there's nothing you can do about it. People tell you eat. but perhaps you do eat, a lot. You just have an incredibly fast metabolism. If you don't want to eat anymore, you shouldn't have to. (Given that you are eating a healthy nutritional diet and are not anorexic, but thats beside the point anorexic people don't see themselves as skinny anyway). I have a friend who eats so much more than I do, but shes incredibly skinny. You know that she eats and eats, but she has one of the fastest metabolism I have ever seen, and doesn't get fatter.

    So, basically, its incredibly annoying for someone to continually tell you something that you know. And they shouldn't they should respect your decisions, granted that you aren't putting yourself in danger.
     
  6. hwaahhhtt!!?? Pho overrated... washu mean huh -pirate
     
  7. gillianzzz

    gillianzzz Member

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    some people say that as a compliment. you should be proud. there are a lot of people who would rather be skinny than fat.. i'm so jealous that some of my friends can eat as much as they want and not gain weight. me on the other hand have to watch what i eat all the time.
     
  8. awwaves4ever

    awwaves4ever Well-Known Member

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    I know what you mean but when people tell you how much you're skinny and ask whether you eat enough so many times, it ends up annoying the crap out of you. Plus, I know some of my friends mean it as "you would look better if you gained a little more weight." So it's not any better than calling you fat. All judgements!
     
  9. ayeitzsim114

    ayeitzsim114 Active Member

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    haha they said im skinny... when they dont even know me.. skinny not boneyy but with cuts and packs lol.. not my fault for having high metabolism jus that i eat a lot and can't get fat from it
     
  10. mikeyh

    mikeyh Well-Known Member

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    I have the same problem :)
     
  11. hey Bruce Lee wasn't hella buff or anything.. dude was skinny... but quick as hell...

    Be like water my Friend....
     
  12. suijei

    suijei Well-Known Member

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    *sigh* Where art thou, metabolism? cause i need one
     
  13. gigglygurl

    gigglygurl Active Member

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    hmm, too bad u can't give me some of your high metabolism! i am not disgustingly fat like obese or anything... just a bit chunky.. would love to go back to my high school weight (which is about 15lbs less), but that also means back to nothing to fill in the clothes either! tried swimming, but that just made my arms all bulky... and now that i stopped. they are just fat. but at least i know these days when i wear the 'right' clothes, ppl come up and ask me if i lost any weight! yay! now if that only actually happens......

    other than that, i do have to say i do love my hands. i have these longish fingers which is freaky for someone short as i am. ppl have called it piano fingers, but that so not true since i know people that play the piano and have 'porn star' fingers. then my nails grow in nicely.... some people even think they are fake! now if only i can find a guy who wants to hold them! ;) *sigh* ok well not any guy....
     
  14. Lammy

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    bak in primary skoo...used to get bullied fo my weight....i'm actually pretty self consious now....
    bak wen i was 14...my dad pulled me aside and 'lectured' me about my weight and becoming an obese adult in the future....i cried in my room after that....it actually hurt alot cuz it came from my own dad....
    damn azn expectations lol
     
  15. Nirvania

    Nirvania I'm BRACK!?

    I hate ppl when they say how skinny i am and that i need to eat more. I EAT ALOT, I JUST HAVE A FAST METABOLISM. then they are like whats metabolism?
     
  16. renegade_cash

    renegade_cash Well-Known Member

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    i find it odd how girls are always like im comfortable with my weight and then you ask them how much they weight and then they'll be like OHHH I cant tell you... WTF then you're NOT comfortable. And all of you that think its funny to eat alot and not care cause you have "high metabolism" you're gonna be FAT when you grow older cause your metabolism slows down but your eating habits stay... >= ) lol i was told that and i can see myself being a fat old guy ROFL cause i was a fat kid when i was young too :(
     
  17. gyyr2

    gyyr2 Well-Known Member

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    As I say, what is fatness. It's one's opinion. Just be what you are and enjoy life.I just had a heart check up because my doctor felt that I had a heart problem. Did all the tests at a Specialist heart hospital and they gave me the all clear.
     
  18. ahahha oh wow... -lol


    -superstar -sorc
     
  19. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    im skinny...oh well..its not my fault..i can eat a lot and still not b fat..i guess i have fast motabolism...i hate being skinny tho but im still fit =)