looking 4 advice, i seldom talks to anyone which i just get to know no matter a its a guy or girl. So i its a barrier 4 me to socialising with new friends especially girls. If with a group of friend, in most of the time i prefer to be silence cos afraid to voice my opinion wil hurt someone or my upcoming topic is boring. Am i lack of socialising skill, self confidence or etc
^id say you lack self confidence dont ever be afraid to speak up or join into a conversation, friends honestly dont care too much, as long as you participate with them. If you offend someone, then hey thats more to talk about, and if you think what your talking about is boring let someone else lead a convo but join in This also applies to making new friends, never be quiet or youll never make any. Just speak up, if they dont get you, then maybe they aint suited to you as friends. But you can keep trying, its always worth the risk
i agree with dim8sum... i was like that once...still am but i'm more open now..=) i know it sounds cliche but just try be more confident in urself, it may not happen over night...but at least u can try..-flow =)
Hmmmmm do presentations ? talk in front of calss? *since school is about start* make stupid jokes haha
I was like that once too, now I'm fat and sits on my computer 24/4, totally recommend you to continue if wanna be cool like
Well I was shy and don't like to talk with people my age so I talk to people that is older then me when I was in elementary school.
Sounds a little like autism. Don't be afraid to voice your opinions. They're as worth hearing as anyone else's. I'm sure your friends are interested for you to share your opinion with them. Give yourself more credit and confidence. Everything will be ok, one way or another.
