i already have a bf... One day, my colleague who married express his feeling on me. He told me once first time he saw me already fall in love on me. i dunno y tat time got feeling on him.. we used to be kiss n hug but i felt guilty when i think bout his wife. i cannot reject him actually i think i should reject.. really complicate feeling... i tried avoid him but his face always appear on my mind... i know this guy not worth me to love but i cannot control my heart.. Help!!!-cry2
so ur like the third person in this relationship? i think you should get over him....ur not only hurting urself...but what about ur boyfriend???? i mean...u felt guilty when you remembered the guy's wife but hellloooo...u got a boyfriend already.... my god...i hope u work it out soon...cos u cant have both... and if you do continue this relationship with the married guy...do urself n ur bf a favor... break up with ur bf cos ur bf doesnt deserve to be treated like that....
seriously..... if you don't see a future with this guy i really think you should cut all ties you had with him cause you now just an accomplice in this affair...
thing is that because he expressed his love for you and wants to be hug and kissed that means hes pretty much cheating on his wife so that means that if you do get with him you cant really trust him cause he might cheat on you get the idea? well anyways my advice is just to forget him and get over him and if you can maybe cut off connections for a bit
his married, to him it may be a thrill. To you as well. However, do you really want to be the third person and risk your relation with your boy friend along with his marriage?. its a 2 way loss, could it be a fling for him? Future possible predictions: Even though you end up with him, can you trust him? As he cheats on his wife. Think about it.
if he's cheating on his wife by telling you these things what makes you think that he won't go doing this to another girl when he's with you
I agree. He can always do what he did on his wife on you. Come on... Get over it. There's a whole forest out there. Why trouble yourself over a bush.
he needs to know where he stands. He's married. u got a bf...cannot work out together. You should knw you cld be the reason why their marriage cld split up...
Grow up. Show respect to HIS wife, your bf, and to yourself. People like you make this world a shitty place. Don't be a " 8poh".
Break up with your boyfriend. Nowhere in there did you say you felt bad or guilty for what you're doing to him. He deserves to be with someone who cares about him as much as he cares for that person. It looks like you've already falling for someone else, so let him move on with his life. As for the new guy...I think you have enough comments on that.