this guy and i are going out but we never said we were bf/gf, but since were going out people already assume were boyfriend and girlfriend.. my close frd ask me if he was my boyfriend or mess..cuz she has a friend that was interested in me so she wants to make sure first. at that time i just annoy her question cuz i wasnt ready to settle down( ima not the type who would go for a long term relationship) or say i dont have a boyfriend but recently as we go out i felt that ima ready to settle down, and people that dont no both of us ask me if i had a boyfriend and i would b like for u to no and me to fine out..so its like annoying the question..then that night i ask him online what relationship were we ...and he said he never thought of that question be4 and he doesnt no..so he ask me why i was asking this question and i said cause mad people been asking me which is true ..so he said y dont i tell them ima your boy then i ask him so are u my boy..he just annoy the question and so i said why dont u call me when you do no..after awhile he aim me and said this question is annoying, so i said fine if u think its annoying then u can forget the question and forget everything including us... then i sign off.. so do u think i did the right thing or not cuz i got two answer from different people one said i did the right thing because if he think the question is annoying then he thinks ur annoying and he doesnt wat to admit the relationship because he might have another grl out there. Another said i did the wrong thing because if i like him then it dont matter wat relationship are we as long as were together.
of course its important to know where u stand... i dont think u did the wrong thing...!!! its always okay to ask where u stand imo..... i find it weird that he says ur Q is annoying.... odd....maybe he doesnt wants anything official so he can still look around? i mean cuz if he wants u to be his gf hed probably grab the opportunity to confirm that u 2 are couple...especially since u took the initiative like that....
Ya I agree with Angie. I't's important to clarify these things. It could also be that he likes you but that he doesn't want other people knowing and stuff. Some dudes want their relationship to be a more private affair.
I think you did the right thing. You have to know if you are being taken seriously or just one his side kick. Now you don't want to be nobody's side kick. You deserve better. You go girl!!!
Thats quite a lot of "annoy" in that paragraph. -lol I think it was quite abrupt to be honest. You are not even sure about your own feelings then you jump the guns asking him about the relationship between the two of you. Also, you mentioned to him about being mad when ppl asked whether you are dating or not. Maybe he took it in the wrong way?
wat's that guy waiting for? christmas? And y did he always ignore u? (assuming u meant ignore in some sentences). wat is he, a dumbass? there's many possibilities that he probably kept ignoring u; he already have a girl, he thinks ur not his type, he hated ur personality, he thinks ur ugly (dont get me wrong, notin personal, i think ur pretty and cute and but if ur offended, i apologize), he probably have someone in mind already, he's gay, etc, etc. if i were him, i would've taken u in as my girl. u kno wat, let me talk wit him..........lol
well i don't think its right for you to be mad at him for not knowing, because you don't know either ... so that's kinda unfair but then i don't know why he said your question was annoying ... i'd probably get mad at THAT but you should probably talk this out with him .. because you don't know why he said what he said
i agree with wind and chelly, u can't rele be mad bcos u don't know urself and hes prob thinking the same, where he stands in this. also could be bcos of other things but since u both don't know where u stand its not right to answer that question at the mo i reckon. also, u do like the word 'annoy' lol.
i'm with everyone else on this one. if you dont know why ask? also, unless you two are holding hands and making out and stuff why would you think there is something between the two of you? you two might be hanging out a lot but i used to hang out with a specific guy friend all the time and ppl thought we were together but we werent. we were just close friends.
ye exactly listen to babs, its quite true that if u hang out it doesn't mean ur a couple. its like if it was a girl and u were always with her it doesn't mean u love her, u are just gd friends.
Is he the type that goes from one girl to another? If not, i think you should sit down and talk to him. In the event that he is the type that is faithful, the way you said it might have hurt him. I dont know if you think like that or not, but guys are sensitive too (we are not as macho as steretyping say we are). If youve been making out with him and then suddenly asks him a question out of blue moon with an annoyed attitude, he might have gotten an impression that you were "playing" him and according to what you said, you seem to be the playa type. If you feel that hes the one, you should definitely go apologize and talk to him. Wish you success in solving your own emotions/ thoughts and the issue atm with him.
do you consider him your bf? because if not, you are holding hands and making out with "just a guy." Just thought i'd point that out. gl.
i think its more important to found out if you actully do wanna continue with him, if you dont even want a real relationship why bother so many breath on him. and also he doesnt even seem really care about it. have he even tried to talk about it now again? or said sorry?
[/QUOTE]so do u think i did the right thing or not cuz i got two answer from different people one said i did the right thing because if he think the question is annoying then he thinks ur annoying and he doesnt wat to admit the relationship because he might have another grl out there. Another said i did the wrong thing because if i like him then it dont matter wat relationship are we as long as were together.[/QUOTE] its the right thing and the wrong thing, right is because he thinks the question is annoying and wrong is because you didn't give him the chance to explain, i assuming you didn't give him the chance by the way.
its the right thing and the wrong thing, right is because he thinks the question is annoying and wrong is because you didn't give him the chance to explain, i assuming you didn't give him the chance by the way.
Awkward situation but if you do like him you shouldn't have been so quick with the whole falling out thing, maybe he doesn't know whether to start a serious relationship or not, or he could be thinking that he just wants to reap the benefits and stay single while at the same time keeping you for himself hence why he sorta asked you to tell others you were his girl..... you never know until you can get an answer out of him so talk to him about it or wait it out to see what he does to try to mend the situation
