Dilemma

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Wai2x, May 9, 2008.

  1. Wai2x

    Wai2x Well-Known Member

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    So here's the deal, I have a friend, i'm female and my friend is male, i've known him for yrs and fancied him for ages except i know or guessed tht i'm not his type so i've accepted tyhat all we'll ever be is good mates.

    Now I know my friend is into kinky stuff and by kinky i mean he's experimentive.

    His bday is soon and for his presenjt i decided to get him a butt plug- now i'm not sure whether to give it to him or not cos i dont want it to be awkward - like what if he doesnt accept it then i'm left w/ a butt plug which is of no use to me.

    I got it cos it seemed like a good idea at the tme..

    now does this pressie seem inapproproiate? I know he doesnt have a gf, so there's no issue of his other half getting annoyed.

    thanks
     
  2. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    right, i don't think men are into stuff like butt plugs and it does seem inappropiate for the occasion. i would not get him that.
     
  3. its really weird idd.. but hell if his a good friends you gonna both laugh about it anywayz :p
     
  4. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    well it seems kind of weird ... but since you say he's kinky, he might like it?
    and if he doesn't you can just pretend its a joke gift
     
  5. Aoes

    Aoes Well-Known Member

    uhm... butt plug... that's um... yeah... -fear
     
  6. uhh....... a butt plug? really...... are you asking indirectly for him to think of trying it out with you o_O
     
  7. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    wow........hahaha WTFF u actually went to a store and bought one? hahaha wow..dayme u're............no commment
     
  8. an0nymous

    an0nymous Well-Known Member

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    What is a butt plug? <<-- dont worry just search it up.

    One word. WTF....

    its ok i reckon for a good laugh. he like this kind of stuff?
    if he is, he is 100% not into u for sure.
     
  9. kontradictions

    kontradictions Well-Known Member

    Get him 2 gifts. Give him the butt plug first, if he freaks out, quickly whip out the 2nd one and play it off as if the first one was a gag.
     
  10. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    yea thats what u should do if u rele want to get it, u should def get a backup gift and if he doesn't like it u can always say it was a joke.
     
  11. ~Eternity~

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    ehhh... I think the best b-day gift you can give him is sex... O_O depending on how old you are tho... Sometimes 3sums can be nice too... That was my bday present last year and I enjoyed it -rolleyes

    PS Don't give it to him
     
  12. Wai2x

    Wai2x Well-Known Member

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    Haha, lols thx for the responses.
    He's actually awayu on a atravelkling gap yr so i sent him 2 mms's of his 2 pressies- the first being a normal pres and the 2nd being the butt plug.
    On the 2nd mms, i joked that it was abt time he had one considering the amount of stuff he shoves up his ass and i just got a teext back say thanks and lol- so it's all gravy....

    I'm glad he liked it cos otherwise i'd have a butt plug floating aroundd...and that wouldnt be good!
     
  13. Flames

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    ^ look on the bright side, at least its not a dp
     
  14. Aoes

    Aoes Well-Known Member

    yes... we wouldn't want a floating butt plug now would we ;)
     
  15. iris

    iris Well-Known Member

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    I wish I had a friend like you.
     
  16. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    hahaha...get him a blow up doll...i doubt a lotta guys will like some butt plug.......he might think u use it too!
     
  17. ProjectD

    ProjectD VIP yay :]

    i mean he may be kinky but i dont think any guy would like a butt plug but who knows xD go for it if you feel comfortable with it
     
  18. [N]

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    hahahahahha this thread is way to funny omg.....get him a dick pump -rotfl butt plug....is he gay or what :xd:
     
  19. ProjectD

    ProjectD VIP yay :]

    ^ haha maybe.... thats why shes not his taste hint
     
  20. cadeline

    cadeline Well-Known Member

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    It really doesn't matter if he uses it or not. It's just a gag. Like some women getting vibrators or.... doesn't matter. You thought it was funny. A gift is a gift...