Disturbing Behaviors

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by negiqboyz, Feb 25, 2009.

  1. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    Have you ever been in a relationship where one is abusive and threatening? How did you break it off??

    I personally have never been in one of them but I have a friend who is kinda whack. Whenever her boyfriend makes her mad, she cut herself; making her bf feels guilty .. WTF .. scary. I distanced myself when I learned of the situation.
     
  2. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    My gf is always mad at me... -_-, I wish I have the balls to cut myself...

    If your friend thinks that cutting yourself would work, that relationship won't last long
     
  3. Flames

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    Try cutting your balls, definitely she'll leave you LOL
     
  4. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    ^ lol if i recall correctly, ac0110 is in a ldr so technically no possible .. lol
     
  5. -Tisken-

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    i think its just selfish ... hurting yourself wont solve any problems.... it just shows weakness ~ [​IMG]

    if i was in that kind of relationship... i would just left her bleed ~ [​IMG]
     
  6. Flames

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    LDR??? explain

    I don't hurt myself if that happens....seems kinda stupid thing to do... LOL but if she does it, one time I'll talk it out with her, second time is break up LOL I don't tolerate with those shit muhahahahahaha
     
  7. ralphrepo

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    :ohnoes: :ugh: -kekemad Damn... "kinda" whacked? She is in need of psychiatric therapy :nuts:
     
  8. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    Yea, what's LDR

    and Yes, if I do drop my balls, she will probably leave me, and I would join the singing team...
     
  9. Flames

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    The chinese opera one? :xd:
     
  10. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    ldr .. long distance relationship

    well .. some people have very freaking bf/gf .. don't ya'll know. in my "ex friend's case, i think she's the type that would kill herself if her bf leaves her" ... i dunno what happened but whatever the guy does, he better does it well leaving her .. it won't be easy .. cuz i can tell she's the kind that cling on you .. unless she let you go, things can get ugly.

    at least it's better than those people who get violent .. you know what i mean. gal who hit you and throw things at you .. omfg .. those are crazy bitches just as much.
     
  11. wysandman

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    knock her before she gets a chance to cut herself , call one of her friends to look after and finish writing a break up letter and leave it there before she wakes up.
     
  12. MissCheekS

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    those ppl should just go n find some pro help cuz that shit aint healthy....
    they wont be able to survive in this cruel world cuz they cant take anything.... how is hurting urself gonna make someone love u... its pathetic n psycho....

    ppl who threaten to kill themselves are just tryna manipulate u to stay....
     
  13. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    ^ yup ... i pity the one being manipulated .. how sad ... never thought breaking up would be this hard i bet ...
     
  14. Flames

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    -ohmy....STREET FIGHTER!!!

    I swear man now I have to be even more careful in picking a gf now >.>"
     
  15. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    i think when you're dating for fun .. it's good to look UP but if you're looking for a wife potential one .. it's better to look DOWN with the standard. not everyone is as lucky as me...lol
     
  16. Flames

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    Hell yeah <_<
     
  17. mr_evolution

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    Ahaha...but he will never get another one after
     
  18. Tiger King

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    its pretty selfish of them to do that... kids these days
     
  19. PhY pHy

    PhY pHy Well-Known Member

    wow...seriously...that woman needs some help...u should go ahead
    and help her find Help...
     
  20. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    HELL NO! I ran away as fast as I could the minute I learned she has such behavior. God knows if she clings on to me then I am DEAD. It's best to keep a distance with such people .. being too nice and supportive can give the wrong impression. To normal people, they can feel the different but to such mentally ill people, anything good means I like you or I love you .. uhhh .. sorry .. not interested.