Do u guys get nervous when talking to a girl you like?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by TheKing903, Jun 26, 2006.

  1. TheKing903

    TheKing903 Member

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    I get nervous all the time when I see the girl that I like, I can't even talk to her properly so usually I just try to remain silent, but really it isn't a very good idea. Can't help it though...
     
  2. nah... i get really excited talking to the girl i like :p
     
  3. Nirvania

    Nirvania I'm BRACK!?

    your a guy?? or are you les?
     
  4. i'm a girl... i'm not a les yet...
     
  5. AVANT

    AVANT Well-Known Member

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    Misconception. YOU become nervous because you don't know what to say, what to do, and don't want her to think negative of you. Take out a piece of paper right now, write out 10 conversations to say to her. Read it, memorize it, then keep it in your back pocket the next time you talk to her.

    Talking about chit chat will not make a girl like you. You need to find ways to show that you're a hell of a guy. Your attitude and body language will say a lot. You come off like a wuss and she'll never think of you as bf material.

    I use to be super nervous around girls that I like, I still get nervous now, but it doesn't overwhelm me to where it affects my thoughts.
     
  6. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    i don't really get nervous...its like im a different person when im with the girl i like lol
     
  7. goo wak jai

    goo wak jai Well-Known Member

    Well when i walk with girls i try to less to chat bullshit with them as it might bore them. it depends on the girl really, every girl has a different personality.
    As for nervous maybe sometimes...
     
  8. singkwan

    singkwan Member

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    Sure, I get nervous when I talk to the person I like. It's a natural, human behaviour. Some people don't get nervous, some do, some get orgasmic. LOL
     
  9. shadow Thi3f

    shadow Thi3f Well-Known Member

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    Yes I do get nervous during the first couple of encounters with the person i like, but then again everyone gets nervous. All of us have insecurities about ourselves and if you say otherwise, then you are lying. Gradually the nervousness goes away because you learn to adapt to the situation. Every person is a different situation and we have to learn to adapt every time we meet someone new. I still get extremely nervous presenting in front of a class and I always thought that people could actually see how nervous I was. A while back I had to do a speech in front of the class. I was nervous as hell, but afterwards my classmates gave me a lot of positive feedbacks. Everyone thought that I felt comfortable up there because I cracked a few jokes and maintained eye contact with the audience. They even thought that I had a lot of experience with public speaking, which is not the case.
     
  10. mikeyh

    mikeyh Well-Known Member

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    I used to get nervous but not anymore :D
     
  11. mingming2006

    mingming2006 Well-Known Member

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    any gd tips on hw u r nw? =P
     
  12. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    I wont get nervous, I just "Treat" her nicer :)
     
  13. Silversaber

    Silversaber Active Member

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    Depends. If the girl you like is just plain infatuation, ie. just see her in class but barely ever talk to her, then it's probably normal to be nervous for most people. However, if the girl you like has been a friend for a while, then there shouldn't be any need to blank out and be so nervous that you can't say anything.