Do u think I'm in love with her?

I know , I know, I had a post before titled Like or Love, That girl I realized it's just infatuation.
Now with this one girl, I know her for like 5 years, there are times I like her, sometime no, sometime I totally ignore, sometime i notice. There are many nice things about her, but there are very negative stuffs that totally turn me off, and I actually told myself one time that there is no way I will ever find interest in her. But recently, this year, morning and night, everytime i'm happy or sad, I want to see her, sometimes i'm comfortable with her but sometime it's just irritating, but after and after all those stuff, I find myself missing her again and again. -dead

 

I think that when you're really, really in love you won't notice any bad things in the girl at all. (at least at first)
Maybe you should meet more girls -just as friends- till you meet the 'right' one, someone with whom you can easily talk to, trust etc. and certainly don't find her irritating any time.

 

I don't really think you love her because you know her for 5 years and you still find her irritating sometimes and all that, your still just treating her as a normal friend

 

Love is when you see both the positive and negative things in a girl and still willing to accept her.

 

^i thought love was blind lols.......

 

Hmmm....is she in love with u?
maybe its because shes in love with u and u know that shes into u and will give u a bit of extra attention thats why u wanna go to her for comfort cuz u know ur gonna get it....

 

Yea, best simplified answer.

 

when you don't notice her flaws... or don't care about it at all... that's when you're in love.

 

omg, different answers , this is confusing

 

Coz the concept of love is different to everyone, there's no set definition of love... what do you expect?
Just pick the answer which u feel the most comfortable with or go with your own instinct.

 

<_<Sounds like you want a bit of that to me<_<

 

i think you should punch yourself in the balls once if you like her

dig your nose if you dont like her

get it?

 

no I don't get anything, I guess it's all up to me, doesn't matter now , i still have to worry about school.

 

i think you are comfortable with her, thus you seek/think about her when you are at these highs and lows in your life, nothing tells me you are "in love" with her

 

I ditto that

 

then when will I really in love with her, or anyone ?

 

that is not love, just another infatuation. you need to date her to know.

 

to me if u really love that grl you would move the earth just for her if she'd ask u to.

 

really? maybe not all the time ...

 

^ then that isnt true love then haha if its not all the time then its just a simple liking matter