Do you believe in love at first sight? What about age differences?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Kaitou_Kid, Dec 4, 2008.

  1. Kaitou_Kid

    Kaitou_Kid Well-Known Member

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    Do you!??? What age is okay for you to date a older man. I think for me...8 years is pushing it.
     
  2. KilaKilaGirl

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    Of course I do...i think because I like many ladies through my school years. well, as long as they look good I dont mind about the age....of course it cant be very old and still look good
     
  3. MissCheekS

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  4. im not 100% sure about love at first sight as you dont even know the person, but as its all based on looks it would be classed as lust at first sight.
     
  5. vangirl86

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    In the psychology level, "love at first sight" is only physical attraction. When you get to know the person deeply or more; depending on your interest, the physical attraction will get replaced by their personality, or it will fade off.

    Have you noticed that once you find someone attractive at first sight, you pretty much regard them as "love at first sight"? However, if you don't get the opportunity to know him/her or have a conversation with them, the feelings that you regarded as "love at first sight" eventually fades off.
     
  6. ^ very true wise one (Y)
     
  7. brown_bear

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    no.

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  9. MissCheekS

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    THANKS Babes!
     
  10. Flames

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    Fuck love at first sight >=[
     
  11. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    i do believe in it but the chances of a proper relationship actually lasting is kinda slim
    an age differences would be one year younger and about 3/4 years older
     
  12. ^ three quarters of a year older!!
     
  13. brown_bear

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    ^ UMM..SO GOTTA BE 9 MONTHS OLDER....(I THINK)...-unsure
     
  14. MissCheekS

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    LOL....r u guys being mean on purpose i mean...she means 3 or 4 years older no...
    i dunno maybe lack of sleep is makin me stupid
     
  15. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    i just realised masterG and bbear were refering to my post lmao

    yeh sorry...i meant 3-4 years older... ;)
     
  16. matethemouse

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    Agree, love is evolved from learning a person to know, the first sight impression is mainly just physical attraction. "Love at first sight" is NOT "I want to have sex with you at first sight"
     
  17. Kaitou_Kid

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    well according to biology, you get sometimes get attracted to other ppl because of neurotransmitters. like the signals from somebody's body fits your neuron? (something like that kind of forgot)
     
  18. Phoenix

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    an pheromones as well...
    if u smell good....it attracts pple to ya :p
     
  19. yeah i was just messin >.<


    Yeah so true
     
  20. marron

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    I do really believe in love at first sight!
    I have believed for a long time and finally my time came. <3

    Age diff? Hm. It depends on how old is a girl...
    for me, kind of weird (not to say sick) iis 15/16 years old girls r dating 25-30 yo guys.
    no offense to anyone, it's my personal opinion.
    Age diff should be around 5 to 7 years.