Do You Believe in ONE Love Your Whole Life?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by mystery, Apr 18, 2006.

  1. mystery

    mystery Well-Known Member

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    I've never really believed in this kind of stuff until recently, when I found out that my professor (who's currently 46 years old) met her husband when they were 16, and have been happily married every since they were 20! -what?

    So do you guys think it is possible to have one love your whole lifetime, or do you believe that all humans are greedy and need to have more than one love in a lifetime?
     
  2. shhh lips

    shhh lips Well-Known Member

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    ehhh why not? I know of a lot of people who married their high school sweetheart and never got divorced or anything.
     
  3. shy

    shy Well-Known Member

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    I believe in 3 loves in a lifetime...

    The one you grow up with, the one you go through your quarter-life crisis with, and the one you grow old with. :)
     
  4. goo wak jai

    goo wak jai Well-Known Member

    I kinda believe in one love, but i have to say that people are greedy sometimes, they see a girl who's fitter than the one they have and they just go for her.
     
  5. dot

    dot Well-Known Member

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    god i hope not...else i'm screwed...-down
     
  6. Spontaneous

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    Not anymore, after the chick i love most dumped me :( Think about it, im 18 and theres gonna be at least 7 years before i marry, and its really hard to stay with the same chick for 7 years and for her not to find a single fault in you. Before 22, relationships are more for "fun" i guess, and then you would want to start searching for a serious relationship 2 years before you marry or so.
     
  7. jello

    jello Member

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    yes I think it's possible, it just depends on who you meet
     
  8. taichi_masta

    taichi_masta Well-Known Member

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    Wow, 18 and thinking of marriage already?!? I think it depends on the person...but the greedy ones will never be happy with what they have.
     
  9. kinni3

    kinni3 Well-Known Member

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    i some what agree with what shy said cept i believe theres only two love in a lifetime. Someone like a first love that grows up with you, someone who you will remember for your whole life and the other would be someone that you spend the rest of your life with :) So to answer the question no i dont believe one love your whole life .... it could happen to some people (like my parents) but its really rare
     
  10. bbloveuz

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    I do believe in it. I've only been with one guy in my life. I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 years now and I'm only 22. I certainly don't plan on leaving him and finding someone else. I think it's rare but it does exist.
     
  11. luvgill

    luvgill Active Member

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    greedy is human nature but i still bliv in 1 love
     
  12. aquaman

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    k....think about how many people are in the world...........think harder...................now think about how many people can say that they married their high school or college sweetheart and are still HAPPILY married after 25 years????.....the percentage is very low....does it exist??? definitely....will you (you meaing in general and not specifically talking about anyone) be one of the rarities? most likely no....
     
  13. jwyim84

    jwyim84 Member

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    nope!
     
  14. Vend

    Vend Well-Known Member

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    Sure, one can believe it. As ong as you don't meet a person by the name of BOB (Battery Operated Boyfriend). Get the pink bunnie then love lasts 4ever.
     
  15. Giniro

    Giniro Well-Known Member

    Honestly i used to believe it when I first seriously in love but now I think even is married it will not means whole life. Nothing is for whole life as what i think is only sibling is for whole life. Think about it how long you and your spouse half life is lucky only one if not might be more than that. Even parents is for half life only sibling is whole life think about it is true.
     
  16. Hsienling

    Hsienling Well-Known Member

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    When I was younger, I don't believe in it. I started dating when i was only 15. My lovers were either self centered or toooo controlling and I hate it ! But 4 years ago, I met my current lover... He's soooo good to me... As I'm only 23 now, I have never thought of getting married yet .. But at this point of time, I am still in lurve with him :D and can't imagine my life without him :(
     
  17. mikeyh

    mikeyh Well-Known Member

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    Yeah i do believe in it but doesn't know how to find the one :b
     
  18. johnjj

    johnjj Member

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    sounds like a curse
     
  19. fcuk_it

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    you wouldn't use the word "love" unless you (should) really mean it. those who use "love" yet break up after a short period of time over small matters never really knew what love was, so they never really experienced love. so i do believe it. there'll always be someone out there who you wouldn't mind spending the rest of your life with