Do you ever regret for letting go the one you love?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by ytlb, Mar 1, 2010.

  1. ytlb

    ytlb New Member

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    I miss him so much and hope we can be together again <ck>
     
  2. Hongtik

    Hongtik Member

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    yes I do... it hurts! but sometimes its good for both parts..
     
  3. turbojake

    turbojake New Member

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    Yes i do, she was one of a kind. I was force to break up n now shes with sumone else.
     
  4. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    NO... There was a reason for letting go at first...
     
  5. dhunter

    dhunter Well-Known Member

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    I do in a way but all you can do is either try to get them back or just move forward...
    no use sitting there doing nothing...
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    xdly has a point there was a reason for it..
     
  6. funnybunnie

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    No point regretting if one have decided to let go.
    I will just have to look forward & forget the past.
    Easy to say, but there will be days when I think about the things we used to do, say, etc...
    Like a chinese saying, if the old one does not go, how would the new one come? lol
     
  7. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    u always feel bad abt letting go... especially if the next one doesn't arrive or doesn't work
    but then at the same time... best things are yet to come =)
     
  8. kontradictions

    kontradictions Well-Known Member

    I do miss her from time to time but do I regret letting her go? Nope.
     
  9. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    I think life is full of regrets but letting go the one you love is certainly not one of them. If you love him/her, then you wouldn't have let her go in the first place. Letting her go mean you no longer loves her/him so there's an obvious reason for the breakup .. what's the regret. None ..
     
  10. z1llch

    z1llch Member

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    sometimes there're just moments..
     
  11. lmf1987

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    it all depends on the kinda person you are... maybe some of you won't understand wut i mean... but for some... when your in a relationship... although u might not think it's true right now... but u might later on... is that your position in life stops... and you do not improve your self... ur lucky if you don't go backwards... but when your not improving your self in the same time... in a way you are going backwards right? cause your losing time...

    in that case... what you regret for? like my last ex... she cheated on me... and broke up with me... it hurted like crazy and i missed her for a long time... but now? i thank her a lot inside... thank god she left me... cause now i have goals which is taking care of my business and make as much money as i can... instead of just being with her and happy everyday... so young and dumb back then lol...

    but in other case... if she's the kinda person that the both of you improves together... (if you know what i mean)... you still don't have 2 regret it... cause it depends... if you did something wrong and left them... you made your choice... and theres no turning back... but if it was the other way round... then you shouldn't think about it atall...

    but to the end... y regret? cause to the end... u guys both say u won't leave each other and how much you love each other and won't hurt each other during the relationship... i can tell u guys right now is that it's all BS...

    cause at some point your gonna hurt either one... in some how, some way... the main question is that "was it worth the paiin?"

    and understand... regret was not in the question atall... cause if you talk about regret... i met you there's a lot more important things in life that you should regret right? lol
     
  12. cheky

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    easy said then done, yes there are regrets, but what can you do about it, u probably, cried and and your sad emotions flooding for so long, no point holding on to someone who doesnt feel the same no more.. best thing is to move on and find someone else, itheres a saying let the one you love one go and if they return then it was meant to be. so if you guys get back together thats great then it was meant to be. dont think to much and just go by the flow..
     
  13. I spent my summer not being able to let go of the one I loved.
    Different universities, new lives, new chances, new people to meet.
    Missed him a lot, he missed me as well.

    Now, we're both in separate relationships,
    don't worry, it will heal with time !
     
  14. iiimj4everiii

    iiimj4everiii Well-Known Member

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    well i regretted on what i did to accelerate the breakup but thats because i didnt see a breakup coming so at the end i was kinda forced to breakup. But her sister said this to me and it really make sense. If i really love her and cherish her, I should let her go and try not to hold her back because this is what she wants and she will be happier.
     
  15. kevboi

    kevboi Well-Known Member

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    If you love someone , u got 2 let them go , if they come back 2 u then it was meant to be. If not, hey u get over it when u meet someone that will replace she/he. Lets say its hard!
     
  16. yyping88

    yyping88 Active Member

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    it hurts. But i think if it is yours, then it's yours.
     
  17. bearbearlui

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    yes im getting that atm! i regret how i let go of someone! i dont want to but it had to be liked that! im upset about it even though i havent said it! it was him who wanted to let go since i havent sort myself out he opened his mouth first! i was hurt badly when he said that to me and had to be the next day of my birthday tooo///i knw i didnt gave him a postive answer he said it that he dont want to hold on anymore! far as i knw theres nothing i can do can only respect what he wants to do! miss him alot he wont knw all i knw i stress him out alot and hurted him, even nnow this love will be buried away! find it hard to chat to him! they have their say all the time but might i not express it to them all along and all the friens think im not the most hurted one! but theres things that no one knows! and guess it be better not letting others knw
    all i know its a mess and big mess
    i wish him good luck wish him well
    :'( :'( ='(
     
  18. bearbearlui

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    will it be mine? i nv think it would be mine in the end i was on my own in the end i think it be the same!
     
  19. bearbearlui

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    love let go i think im doing that! but it hurting so bad! its really hard u knw! that u cant find a path to walk on i feel lost ='(
     
  20. bearbearlui

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    regret! evcen the opposite not want to break up will u still break up! woont both hurt? who ever said it first how hurt will opposite be? let her go did she want to let go? was it how she wanted it? did i wanted to let go! guess i was holding on too long that opposite is tried of waiting! respect but am i even happy about it? ='(