Do You Get Jealous Easily?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by mystery, Apr 16, 2006.

  1. mystery

    mystery Well-Known Member

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    Are you the type to get jealous very easily? Like if your gf/bf hangs around a lot of people from the opposite sex, or if he/she talks a lot about a certain HOT celebrity, would that make you feel uncomfortable?

    My boyfriend and I are not like that, but I have seen some people get just jealous over stuff like this, which eventually ended their relationships.

    I talk to my bf about hot celebs all the time, but he doesn't care. He usually just laughs it off. -rolleyes To me, I think when you're in a relationship, it's okay to check out other ppl as long as you watch your boundaries. :) What do you think?
     
  2. kinni3

    kinni3 Well-Known Member

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    well i duno if my bf gets jealous or not but im dont get jealous.... well i duno if thats a good thing or not.-huh Cuz my bf is a big flirt he flirts with every girl he sees -mellow well i dont really care cuz i do the same some what jus not as much. And me and my brother always talk about which celeb are hot or not and etc -lol Is it weird ???? -^_^
     
  3. shy

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    A while back, when I was with my ex, he'd have girls call him all day & night. Of course, I'd never have the chance to meet any of these lovely ladies. Once, when we were walking to the subway station during rush hour, he saw his 'girl friend.' So he ran over to say hi to her... but he was still holding my hand... & as we were crossing the street, because he was walking so fast, I lost my footing & fell. When I fell, he was still holding my hand... & was practically dragging me across the street, just so that he could say hi to his 'friend.'

    Another time, with this same guy, I went to the park where he played basketball. One of the girls there tripped me & was trying to start a fight with me. Later on, I found out that the girl was his ex-girlfriend, the same one he'd seen at the subway.

    There was also this other guy I went out with who had an ex-girlfriend with the same first name as me (same pronunciation, but spelled differently). & once, he e-mailed me and meant to write my full name, but he wrote his ex girlfriend's name instead. That got me going.

    But usually, when I get jealous, I just either go out for a drink, or I do the same to him to let him know how he makes me feel. Revenge is sweet. -devil Gosh, I'm so childish...

    Anyway, to answer your question, if my boyfriend is all close with other girls that I don't know and he doesn't bother to introduce them to me, then I am skeptical. But if he's not being shady about these girls that he's hanging out with, I have no problem with it.

    I'm usually only jealous when it gets overboard, meaning if my boyfriend (imaginary so far) is all close with other girls and is hanging out with other girls more often than he is hanging out with me. I also don't like it when I'm compared to his previous girlfriends, but if he's checking out some girl on tv or whatever, it's perfectly fine. I look too... at hot girls & at hot guys. Just as long as you're not tapping it, it's no big deal. I don't understand why some people get jealous of their gf/bf checking out celebrities. I mean it's not as if s/he's crushing on her/his nextdoor neighbor or something of which s/he could actually hook up with, so what's there to be jealous of?
     
  4. Naoko

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    people that get jealous easily have no faith in there bf or loved ones or partners you have no reason to feel jealous he/she is with you if your jealous then that means you have no trust in him/her so you have to calm down dont go all psycho thinkin that some person will take your bf/gf away its wrong to think that way thats why you people will get into fights and its really ridiculous if you ask me!! girls dont get jealous because hes is with you
     
  5. lovehina

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    I think it's hard not to get jealous, especially if your gf hangs out with more guys than girls (or your bf hangs out with more girls than guys). it's a fact of life, though: your significant other is going to meet others of the opposite sex throughout their lifetime, just like you are going to meet others of the opposite sex. you just have to accept this, and make sure you have trust in your partner.
     
  6. chefke66

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    i a very jealous person but if i'm jealous i don"T show it.
     
  7. mint_T

    mint_T Well-Known Member

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    Damn, your ex's sure were JERKS! And that guy who forgot how to spell your name..wow, that would have infuriated the sh*t out of me. I hope you didn't wait too long before breaking up with the idiot. <_<
     
  8. NIOBE48

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    i get super jealous easily. i used to think i'm not but really don't like sharing. and plus, i'm very possessive. i haven't a boyfriend yet...probably cuz have this aura that says "she's crazy." haha. anyways, i think i would have to totally be sure that my guy won't stray and then i won't be jealous anymore.
     
  9. mint_T

    mint_T Well-Known Member

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    Yeah, I think that's what it means, basically.
     
  10. bbloveuz

    bbloveuz Member

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    Honestly I am the type of girl that gets jealous easily. The funny thing is I would get jealous over my bf's family before I would get jealous over another girl. I think its because I trust that no other girl would come between me and him but his family certainly would. Maybe it's just because I had many bad experiences with them, especially his sister. I just hate it when he listens to her opinion on things and not listen to me.
     
  11. fcuk_it

    fcuk_it Member

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    it's normal to get jealous. human nature. i think it's okay to be jealous because it shows you care, but don't go overboard and do crazy and stupid things