I notice that Asians mostly don't "date" around all that much. Any of you have any input on this? I myself have only gone on one or two. -sweat Also how do you guys feel about dating/seeing multiple people at the same time?
Heh most of the time, parents don't want them too, they'd rather that they stay home and study : ) jk. Dating, seeing multiple people at a time = is wrong. If you do it because your scared of hurting someone, chances are someone will get hurt. If you do it cause your a cheap and worthless person, you don't deserve to see anyone.
Just depends on who you meet... a lot of guys don't "date" around because they don't know how, not because they don't want to. -ohmy I don't think it's wrong and I don't think that's a cheap worthless person at all. There's a difference between dating multiple people, and having multiple gf/bf. Once you make the commitment to being the person's bf/gf, he/she should definately remain faithful. However, if the 2 aren't exclusive, one should definately date more people. They'll get more first hand experience and find out the type of person they really want, how to behave properly, etc. It'll only help both parties in the long run.
I've had several serious relationships. At the same time, I do date casually when I am not in a serious relationship. If not for dating, how else will you find somebody with whom you are compatible? And I agree with Avant that there isn't anything wrong seeing multiple people at the same time when exclusivity has not yet been discussed. If you don't try things on, how will you know that it will fit you? If I'm not dating a guy exclusively, I will go on casual dates with guys. There's nothing wrong with meeting more people. Until I have the talk about being exclusive, I feel that I have the freedom to do whatever I want. And you shouldn't assume that whoever you're dating/seeing is just seeing/dating you alone. Nobody can be as naive as that.
yea...asians...it's wierd. It seems like there is no dating! To me, it looks like they ask someone out as BF/GF....then they start dating.
Yeah i noticed that too, I find it so weird that once someone asks you out on a date, they automatically assume that they're girlfriend/boyfriend. These asians need to understand what they mean when they ask, "will you go on a date with me?" and stop mistaking it for, "will you be my gf/bf?" it's not cheating to go out with multiple people because there's no official commitment yet.
Asians do date. Some things parents can't control when it happens xD I guess it's ok to consider a few peoples, but do it too long then thats just playing with them, got to to decide one or the other. I think people assume "Will you go out with me" and "Will you be my bf/gf" due to lack of experience? I had that problems the first few times round ^_^;;;;;
Umm...I dont know where you guys are from but Asians over here sure date around. Dating multiple people at the same time isnt cheap, hell I did it before. Eventually I had to let one of them go when it became more serious. I believe in having a backup plan just in case something doesnt work out. Theres a difference between cheating on your partner and dating two people at the same time when the decision to see each other exclusively isnt made yet. Again Love is a numbers game. In order to find that right person you are going to have to go out there and explore the possibilities. For the guys when it comes to dating two girls you better watch out what type of girl you are seeing. If one of the girls you are seeing is the good girl type, never had an actual relationship before and is extremely sensitive, try to not to let her know about the other girl. Most girls wouldnt mind if you are seeing someone else because ummm....they are probably seeing someone else too. Dont lead this type of girl on cuz it will only break her confidence. Also watch out for girls that think she is a Pimptress. They date and flirt with guys just to brag to their friends how many guys are jocking on her. Let these bitches go and move on to the next.
Yup..i agree with SHADOW...I here dated Multiple women before... I told but of the girls i date them both... It's goes both way... you can do that too..But in the end...i have to choice one of the girl...
I think dating is a stage. It means going out with someone whom you want to get to know a bit more...more than friends that is...but at the same time, you might want to get to know more people in order for you to know which one clicks with you the best. So, dating a few people at the same time is okie. BUT when you've finally chosen, RELATIONSHIPS are meant for only two people. So, i DON'T AGREE with having relationships with more than one person. At the same time, there are lots of girls who would want to find that special person, not flirt around and most girls DO NOT brag to their friends about the guys chasing them. Personally, its quite awkward to mention these things amongst girls.
