Hey, i wana ask whether you people out there have a feeling whens your gf is cheating on you.. It happen to me once when i was working at genting for 1week.. I couldn't see her for 1week and i have a strong instinct that something is happening.. I called my gf and she told me she was at home, and i called the house and found out that she is nt at home and went with his fren to Ipoh.. After 1week i come back and asked her about this, she thought i dunno.. End up i scolded her and she admitted all.. So do you people have instinct when your gf cheated on you..?
this hasnt happend to me in my current relationship...cos i have no reason to suspect my bf and we trust eachother... but my previous one yeh..i suspected my ex was cheatin on me...n it was kinda obvious in a way...but i didnt have the guts to kinda confront him an i just left it..in the end we broke up but i wasnt that sad...i knew we were guna break up sooner or later... but i guess sometimes pple do get that nagging feeling within them..when they're separated from their partners for a long time and that causes them to suspect their other half... an i know it sounds abit cliche...but sometimes u just gotta trust ur partner and hope it all ends well.... so hope u an ur gf is alrite...
hmm well it happens to a lot of ppl from like being paranoid its just that sometimes it happens like an instinct but it hasnt happened to me, would never suspect my gf of ever cheating on me maybe you thought that she was cheating on you cause you guys havent gone enough to trust eachother =/
yeah, there must have been a lot of hints leading up for you to have those thoughs. in a relationship you shouldn't really ever think about the other cheating.
Well sometimes my girlfriend does things that might cause me think something like this, but i usually put those thoughts aside i mean if something is meant to be then its meant to be if not we all walk away knowing we tried our best.
well if you've had it happen to you before then i'm not surprised you're paranoid about your new gf.. (do you hv a new one after the one who cheated on you?) distance can be a thing, but at the end of the day (i know it's typical to say this..) you've just got to trust each other. i haven't seriously thought about my boyf. cheating on me and he hasn't thought that about me- i think? we're a couple who are ALWAYS together (when we can be) so we spend a lot of time together, last summer i went back to HK for 3months and it was undoubtedly hard- i mean from constantly seeing each other to nothing for 3months?.. it was a tough time for both of us, when it got too hard i'm sure either one of us thought of the most absurd thing/situation and get v. paranoid. but afterwards we regained a a stable state (emotionally) and started thinking clearly again. it's just down to trust... sometimes i think it's paranoia and trust issues that break couples up, regardless if they've been cheating/cheated on. i've never been in your situation because i've never been cheated on, but i think i'll have a good hunch if i do- they start acting weird and sensitive about everything right?.. anyway, hope it doesn't happen to you again!
unfortunately i'm one of them who overthinks too much [paranoia]- who ends up thinking the bf likes another haha.. maybe cos there are so many girl friends out there who are much better than me =_='' .but i did trust the guy i used to be with [kinda...haha..]...*sigh*.. "instincts"- i guess you do have instincts whether they are cheating on you or not...?? maybe the way s/he doesn't feel that close or be that close to you than they usually are? =/
umm well i did with my ex but i dunno if she did lol doesnt matter to me now well in my current relationship well its my girls first time and i dont think that she will do anything but she is i cali right now so >.> i dont really knowits in between right about now
i trust my gf, but she is dam good looking that i can't help to think about it some times, i know i trust her, its just i don;t trust guys that are around her - -
