Do you pretend you are single/dating?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by smallrinilady, Aug 27, 2007.

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Have you ever

  1. Pretended to be single when you actually were with someone?

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    9.2%
  2. Pretended to be dating someone when you were actually single

    14 vote(s)
    21.5%
  3. Did both as mentioned above

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    10.8%
  4. Done neither

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    58.5%
  1. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    have you ever pretended to have a bf/gf when you didn't?

    have you ever pretended to be single when you were dating someone?
     
  2. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    i know i have, i've never pretended to be single

    but i have pretended to be dating someone, when i was single
    just cause someone would have an interest in me, and the only thing i can say to make them back off is "I have a bf"


    although the other day i almost got caught
    i was joking with one them about "how can (action) happen if you are single"
    and he's like "oh your single"
    and i'm like "oh no, but it feels like it cause my bf is away for the summer . . . . i miss him"
     
  3. ProjectD

    ProjectD VIP yay :]

    no i would never pretend
     
  4. MissCheekS

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    i told someone i was already dating someone because i wanted him to back off in a nice way =)

    i know someone who pretended to be single who was married muahahaha
     
  5. my friend bluntly said NO to a girl, so she told her crazy cuz and he beat my friend up, literally knocked him unconscious :(
     
  6. MissCheekS

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    errr ok...?
    thats a way to show u dont like to be rejected haha
     
  7. ckthepilot

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    nice cuz :(
     
  8. MissCheekS

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    i remember me going home to get my my brother to beat some guy up in primary school because he was saying stuff about me being chinese =)
     
  9. ckthepilot

    ckthepilot Well-Known Member

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    ^^ but that's different... I too have a sister and wouldn't mind punching a guy out for her :p
     
  10. pak

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    There's no shame in being single, and if in a relationship, there's no need to pretend that you're not in one unless you don't value the relationship? -huh
     
  11. lee-lee

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    i've told guys that i had a bf when i didn't. i don't know how else to say, "sorry, not interested" without hurting their feelings.
     
  12. pak

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    If it was some randoms coming up to you i am sure you can say whatever and they won't get hurt by it, they are probably pros.

    If it was someone you knew for awhile then they should have asked you if not found out if you were single or not before asking you. :)
     
  13. skid

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    Just say exactly that "sorry, i'm not interested" and they'll get the point. I reckon they'll be even more hurt if you told them you had a bf but later they found out you were lying to them.

    I had a friend who liked a guy, the guy told her he wasn't really up for any relationships with anyone. But the next thing you know the guy is trying to ask another girl out. Obviously she was pretty cut up about it.
     
  14. skid

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    Oh and i've never really lied about being single or taken.
    The closest thing would be my friend assumed a girl i was seeing was my gf, and i didn't really say she wasn't so yeah. She kept asking about her even when nothing really worked out between me and the girl. It was like
    friend - "so hows your gf?",
    me - "oh yeah shes ok" -emb
     
  15. MissCheekS

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    hahaha yeah...dont u hate that...
    or ur at a party and ppl say so wheres ur bf...and im like...he died :p
    nah just kidding...i just say were history =)
     
  16. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    i see ur point. lying about it has never come back to bite me in the ass...yet. i guess from now on, i'll just tell the truth.
     
  17. MissCheekS

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    if u dont know the guy like say u met him in a club...and he asks...who cares...im gonna continue saying that i do have bf :p
     
  18. when i get strangers asking for my number i always tell them i'm living with my bf even when i'm single...
     
  19. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    i pretended i was dating when i wasnt cos some boy kept asking me out...it was a bit scary now that i think about it...
     
  20. i will never lie about diz stuff lolz... so stupid ar... but a guy where i am with now on vacation actully has a GF... but his pretending to dont have a girl so he can have fun with girls over here :S tbh... thats really sad... but ah well.. im stuck with them for 1 more week... HELP ME OUT AR