If you are/were in a relationship... do you talk about your x bf/gf to your current Bf/gf's? if so why? Me: i only talking about my xbf if they want to talk about the past and want to get the know me... but if randomlly... den i dnt.. what about yu guys! _________________
i dont think i would mention much of the past unless its nessasary. why go back to the past and get things heated up. my bf might get mad over somthing stupid. plus the history of your life might not be so thrilling so keep it to yourself =]
It's such a bad idea. It sends the wrong signal that "if you behave like my X you better change, otherwise I'll dump you, just like I did him, without a second thought"
Bad idea Do not compare.. and never bring it up.. i learned it the hard way.. never bring up the word ex unless u have to explain urself for something. A girl will feel that she does not compare with ur ex if u bring it up... and that u still have feelings for the ex or something.. so dont..
Sometimes I talk to my exes about my current girlfriend. They help me see if it's her fault or mine, of course it's usually mine.
if u talk about ur ex... they always get jealous etc so if u dont want a siew hai girl that u need to again spend alot of money to cheer her up.. dont talk about ur ex XD
I normally do not talk about it unless something I did triggers that thought or I found out something about them. By current b/f doesn't mind anyways.
iv always talked about it in the past because i believe that honesty & being open in a relationship i extremely important.... but now im thinking i will start telling less about the past because theres so much i just want to put behind me completely....
I did ask for how much gf he got be4 but i doesnt ask what happend cos he said that directly too me even i wasnt really interesting in that cos what past is past. Why am not interesting on that cos mine thinking just respect him and if he does want to tell ur he will said it rite to me
no because my ex and i are both hella stubborn its a constant pain cause we see each other almost everyday at practice but whatever
before you start a new relationship, both parties will post question to know each other better. after talkin & sharing. then it is the past & it is time to start a new relationship. that way, you will be truthful to your true relationship.
hmm.. I dun see a reason to talk abt it.. so unless its gg to help in one way or another, I wouldn't mention. N.. pls.. never compare your ex with ur current. That's the worst thing to do...
Not reli..cos i think its best to leave the past with the past...no need to dwell on it cos its just gona cause u pain if you start thinking about it too much.. Plus, it would feel as if me n my bf are comparing each other with our x's n that's not a nice feelin n then it mite cause jealousy etc..its not really worth it..so y do it? Its good to learn from ya mistakes but leave the past with the past..
i totally agree bt not talking about ur ex with ur current one... it makes them think too much.. n later lots of questions popping out
i only talk about my exs wen they wanna know, otherwise,, no mentioning... not a good idea to anyways.. they get jealous... blah blah... more troubles... ><
