Just wondering Does anyone hate you (of course everyone is not liked by everyone, therefore there are at least the people who dont like you) and if someone hates you, why? do you know why? if it's a personality thing, do you try to correct that 'flaw'? if it's a situation do you try to fix it? if it's cause of a rumor, do you try to clear things up? if it's cause an argument, do you try to make up for it?
i know there are some people rather scared/annoyed by me cause i'm too opinionated and forceful especially when it come to making decisions that affect your life down stream, such as what major they pick (i convinced two people out of a Japanese major in an American school) and how to job search (i push them to work on resumes, coverletters etc and think I overwork them) for this, i've learned, I will push them once, twice, but if they dont budge I stop trying. I know I can help some of my slacker friends, but I rather them not avoid me becuase of it. Even if it can help out their future, they are the onces pushing against this help I rarely have tantrums, but when i do, they are frightening and i guess people can't handle them (this i have tried to work on by completely shutting up, but this has caused communication problems of people not realizing issues)
if someone hates you, why? do you know why? Of course I know why, not that I would do anything about it. Opinionated, sarcastic, not afraid to share my sentiments and ABSOLUTE disregard to feelings of others. Possibly the worst mix of character flaws. if it's a personality thing, do you try to correct that 'flaw'? Don't think so, most of the time it's the flaws which make me "me" and not someone else. There's only one "right" personality, but a million (if not trillion) "wrong" or "flawed" ones. if it's a situation do you try to fix it? Not a situation, and if it is, it happened that way because I am acting like myself. if it's cause of a rumor, do you try to clear things up? Rumours are for stupid people, as long as I know it's not true I don't give a damn. if it's cause an argument, do you try to make up for it? Nothing.
well i think they hate me..cos they think i stole their friends boyfriend...but i didnt... they hate me cos apparently i'm 'fake'...which i'm not.. i think its a big misunderstanding, ,but how can i fix it when they always 'screw' me (giving me dirty looks)and spread rumors? this went on for a couple of years, i avoid them and i didnt say nufin cos i was afraid of them, didnt wana cause any trouble, so yeh..things got better when they went college, rumors have stopped but ther's the occasional 'look' sometimes.. but i dont really care no more..its not worth it...
Why, if there's someone that loves me out there, I am sure there are people who hate me as well. -lol If I know the person hates me, then I'd know why, probably. If I have no idea that person hates me, then I'd definitely not know why. No, that's who I am, and I don't change for anyone, unless it's my own initiative to change. Of course I do strive to be a better person, so I would try to 'lessen' all my negative traits. If I think it's my fault, I would try to fix it. If it's a misunderstanding, then I might try as well. I'd confront the person who's spreading the rumor, if I know who that is. If not, I'll just ignore it, or explain if someone asked me. Like I said, if someone asks me about the rumor, I'd explain to him/her. If he/she doesn't believe it's fake, then I won't give a damn. It's not my fault, so why try to 'make up for it'??
quite a couple of people hate me and i'm sure i know why..but i mean i'm not going to change myself just because of a couple of people..if everywun i know hates me then thats a different story..
how could anyone hate me? it's impossible! haha jk jk i think brain hates me tho... -.- and if someone hates you, why? do you know why? cuz i'm too good. =P if it's a personality thing, do you try to correct that 'flaw'? nope... why would i? if it's a situation do you try to fix it? depends if they want to fix it... if not, i don't really care. if it's cause of a rumor, do you try to clear things up? eh... dont care, ppl can say what they want, only ppl who care about me would ask me about the rumor and i'd tell them what really happened and they'd believe me. no use explaining it to the world. if it's cause an argument, do you try to make up for it? nope... guys are like that, they get mad, and forget about it the next day or at least act like nothin happened... girls on the other hand... remembers forever *sigh*
yea prolly 25% of Pa wants you -dead -clapclap and the other 75% isnt active on PA -bigclap and yea people does hate me and most of the time i know who xD but i dont care if they dont like me.. they can kiss my *** -ohmy
if someone hates you, why? do you know why? don't know who hates me and who's not....i did nothing to offend people...if my friend isn't happy with me she'll tell me directly..because we are close friends..and i prefer that people tell me if i hurt their feelings or something...and not pretending to be a nice guy in front and actually talk about me behind my back.. if it's a personality thing, do you try to correct that 'flaw'? i think my personality is well enough.. i respect people's privacy and can be a good listener. i try to help if i can and i won't throw unnecessary tantrums. if it's a situation do you try to fix it? yes because i am the person who can't stand people misunderstanding me. if i treat them as friends i will not let argument come in our way.. if it's cause of a rumor, do you try to clear things up? i tried at first and apparently the rumors won't go so i just let it be...after all i cannot stop people from talking about me... if it's cause an argument, do you try to make up for it? depends on what we argued for..
if it's a personality thing, do you try to correct that 'flaw'? no. if they dont like my personality, thats their problem because im wouldnt change my personality just because somone doesnt "like" it. if it's a situation do you try to fix it? depending on who is involved in the situation. if it was between my close friends then yes i would try to fix it. but really it depends on the situation, because if its a friend over a serious issue then i would try and clear things out but if its over a stupid issue then no. if it's cause of a rumor, do you try to clear things up? no...because i have tried explaining things in the past but that just leads to more misunderstanding. and if they truly were your friends they wouldnt believe the rumours anyways. if it's cause an argument, do you try to make up for it? it depends on who with and how bad it is but in general if i was wrong then ill make up for it but if i wasnt then most likely no.
Lol....i was hated by a lot of ma high school frens...cos i used to collect the homework and hand them in to the teachers yeah...i gained quite a lot of enemies from that but i don give a damn hahaha...But, i think one of the worse one was, this girl thinks that i am in a relationship with the guy she has a crush on and yeap she hated me since (in fact, me and da guy were just frens so got hated for nothing). She used to step on ma bag or kick ma bag around.....stupid ehh -ohmy
and if someone hates you, why? do you know why? Right now, I know a few who probably hates/dislike me. Something dealing with this one person. if it's a personality thing, do you try to correct that 'flaw'? Perhaps it's a personality thing, but I don't try to change myself. if it's a situation do you try to fix it? Nope, I actually feel relief about it XD if it's cause of a rumor, do you try to clear things up? There was a rumor, but people know the whole story behind it now so there no need to clear anything up. if it's cause an argument, do you try to make up for it? Didn't cause an argument so there's nothing to make up for.
Many people hate me and I can guess the reasons but not 100% sure of them. There's nothing I can do to stop people from hating me.
Does anyone hate you (of course everyone is not liked by everyone, therefore there are at least the people who dont like you) and if someone hates you, why? do you know why? Yup I do know. There are people who don't like me because my character belongs to a direct and straight-forward which will sometimes make people feel that I'm too critical. if it's a personality thing, do you try to correct that 'flaw'? I will question whether my attitude is really that wrong and to see whether I'm being mistaken from friends to determine whether there's a need to correct the flaw if it's a situation do you try to fix it? Seriously, I don't try to fix it. Because those who hate me are just "judging from the surface" and they do not know me that well. if it's cause of a rumor, do you try to clear things up? No. What for when people make judgment that easily? I dislike people who judge the book by its cover. if it's cause an argument, do you try to make up for it? If it's my fault, YES! I will do reflection about it and apologize. I dare to admit my mistake. If it's not my fault, I won't try to make up for it
and if someone hates you, why? do you know why? lol dunno.. probably? if it's a personality thing, do you try to correct that 'flaw'? everyones got diff opinions on whats right or wrong. i'll judge by what i think then improve or not. if it's a situation do you try to fix it? if its my friend yeah. if it's cause of a rumor, do you try to clear things up? depends how bad the rumour is lol if it's cause an argument, do you try to make up for it? only if its my frnd
Puhleez don't flatter yourself. Hating someone requires energy and effort. Ur not that worthy enuff to remain in my thoughts... -whistle And stop being obsessed with me. <_<
^ he seems to a part of you nowadays =P yeh im a sure some people hate me..but i dun really care.... everybody is entiled to their own opinion....
