Easier to LOVE or easier to HATE?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by wondergirl, Sep 16, 2006.

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Do you think it's easier to love or hate?

  1. It's definitely easier to love!

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  2. Of course it's easier to hate!

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  1. wondergirl

    wondergirl Well-Known Member

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    Do you guys think it's easier to love someone rather then hating them or vice versa?

    I think that its easier to hate than to love because its a lot easier to find faults in people than to rave about how wonderful they are.

    What do you think?
     
    #1 wondergirl, Sep 16, 2006
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  2. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    its easier to hate..i hate a lota ppl lol
     
  3. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    i think its easier for guys to hate and girls easier to love...cause girls r soft lol..guys r suppose to be tough
     
  4. ms-jojo

    ms-jojo Well-Known Member

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    i have to disagree with you on this one. girls can be pretty hateful.
     
  5. don

    don ello

    it's way easier to hate.......
     
  6. sp-lork

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    totally agree..i know a few that hold grudges for the longest time...

    i think its easier to hate someone though...
     
  7. i think it's about the same... coz u gotta love someone alot in the first place to hate that person...

    u may dislike joe blow down the block for running out with his undies on but u don't hate him coz u don't care about him enough to hate him... he's just an annoying guy that's it...

    but if one day ur fiance comes up to u n tells u that he's gay n he's in love with ur dad then yeah it's really easy for u to hate him coz he lied to u n he used u to get closer to ur dad...
     
  8. sp-lork

    sp-lork Well-Known Member

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    LOL thats a really funny example. i'd really hurt the guy if that happened ahaha
     
  9. haha... that sounds kinda funny i suppose... but if that was to happen to u it'd b really devastating
     
  10. aishiteru4

    aishiteru4 Well-Known Member

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    Well i agree.... but it's easy to fall in love with someone.... don't you agree?? and when u hate someone.. it is also hard to stop hating that person... aiks.. such a hard question...
     
  11. yarg11

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    I think it's easier to hate.

    Just look at the world today.

    You don't see people blowing themselves up for love do you? -down
     
  12. disciplex

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    I think love and hate are too strong of words and not used properly...in love it's more of a trust or lack there of...or loss of trust...you can be angry with a person...but normally such anger will disipate...but trust may be lost if they did something you cannot forgive...trust I think is paramount in a relationship...so if you think of it as trust rather than love or hate...it's just as easier to lose trust than to gain trust...

    Just my take on it ;)...I can't just love just anybody...but I can hate whoever I want ;)...hehe...
     
  13. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    its called rivalry and grudge and beef...just like bloods and crips...i doubt they love each other .. they're born to hate each other
     
  14. yarg11

    yarg11 Well-Known Member

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    I see what your saying, but I just can't see how killing yourself or others can prove you love someone.
     
  15. darknight

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    Hating takes too much effort LOL. What good does hating do you? Unless you are a vindictive person who would actually do something to the person you hate, hating is only bad for your health.

    It's not easy to love either... but I would say love is better. At least it gets you something good in return if you're lucky: love.
     
  16. rNb99

    rNb99 Well-Known Member

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    i think it's easier for me to love since i fall in love so easily... =)
    and honestly i always give myself reasons not to hate someone so i don't have any hatred towards anyone in my life.
    life will be much more happier with loves than hates..
     
  17. yvi724

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    i agree with many of the posts. hating is so stressful, and like rNb99 i fall in love so easily. but than i think that both love and hate is easy, i dont really think one or the other is easier to do.
     
  18. brown_bear

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    i think its soo much easier to LOVE someone than to hate someone!

    but im not really one to hold long grudges as i tend to forget after a while la :) plus to hate someone uses up soo much energy and is soo not worth it after a while :)
     
  19. shijiko_7

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    The thing is.. there is only ONE REALLY THIN LINE between LOVE and HATE... For example : you start going out with someone, you start to LOVE him... the next day, you found out that the fella is sleeping with most of your frens .. then the LOVE turns to HATE... HOw fast is it? It is up to you to decide...