being friends with my ex isn't a great idea... i noe this guy she was dating left on vacation and we've been hangin out quite often. i enjoy her company and it's fun at times but i guess i still have feelings for her. i'm afraid to lose her as a friend and also know i can't have her as a friend... at least not now. in a way, i want her back but i can't right now and if we stop talking, my chances are slim to none? but i noe i should stop talkin to her and you guys will say the same. it's just so hard...
awww...ur still stuck with this ex thing ha? hmmm...yeah like ive said b4....stop contacting her and tell her to do the same... goodluck
eeeeerrrr... angie knows best how much i hate this whole "friends with ex" theory... just never works...
yeah i'm kind of in this situation, but add a few more complications to the mix and its a disaster I understand your dilenma, but thiking about getting back with her won't do you anygood. Just cut off contact for a while, do other things to keep your mind occupied. I find reading books or hanging out with mates is a good way to do this.
still keep in contact once in a while... make her miss you - if she asks why u haven't been contacting her then say that you're busy with work/uni/family stuff etc..... still be nice and then when you're ready, woo her back! good luck.... add oil yo!
what angie says... just stay away from her for awhile... till you really dont like her anymore... you only hurt yourself and her if you keep on with this
??? 100 minutes? Well, time for a new sn or something. Instead of saying anything, I'm just going to try to avoid her with the "busy" excuses. I already ignored her call today and haven't been on AIM. Technically I will actually be really busy for the following year. 7 classes and part-time working. I may have to quit my job...
let it go ........ dont try so hard to be with someone sooner or later someone else comes along and you can give ur undevoted attention to her.........
what's that 100 minutes?! i don't get it... i might hit the club saturday. care to join me angie? i don't drink tho, so dont even think bout takin advantage of me. lol
i was referring to dawn's reply...she told me how i know best...if id have to explain that....it would take me quite a while.... join u for clubbin...? sounds temptin....are u even allowed to go clubbin? isnt ur ass underaged? and trust me.... i will take advantage of u whenever i want to...u dont need to be drunk for that...~
Erm, there must be a reason for you to dump her at the first place rite.. things cant be change, so get along with your life and discover other fishes in the sea.. Who knows, having her as ur company when u re lonely might just make u have weird thoughts and those thoughts might be misleading.. Anyway, good luck to ya.. =)
Well, i think u need to distinguish, whether she is someone uw atn to go back with , or as other members have dicussed, do u have still have feelings for her, that is the most important. Becuase in my opinion, unless there was something that went terribly wrong in teh realtionship( liek she cheats on you .etc ) then i shouldn't see the poitn of breakign to no contact. Up to this day. I talke dto my ex, but does it mean i ahve feelings for her? No, but i guess ti depends between person to person. anyways jstu ahring my opinion on the topic
underaged? haha i wish... although i did get carded at reno about 8 times in one night. guess i got that eternal youth look going on. well... we broke up probably because the relationship didn't seem like it was going anywhere. we became too comfortable with each other and i guess i do get lonely sometimes which confuses me when we talk. sometimes i want her back and sometimes i don't. i talked to her a few days ago, told her that she can't keep treating me the way she does... askin me to do stuff for her all the time, especially since we're not going out nemore. stuff like, drive her to work, pick her up... eh... stuff that a bf should be doin. i haven't heard from her as much the pass few days. my guess is that the dude she's dating came back from vacation but that's just a guess. if that's true, then i will definitely talk to her as minimal as possible cuz she's treatin me this way.
pffff...thats just stupid..u actually did that stuff for her while u were not together... damn...come on...obviously she just using u
