End up loving your gf/bf more or the other way around?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by virusrx, Mar 12, 2009.

  1. virusrx

    virusrx Active Member

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    In a relationship, there are those that love more than the other. Would you rather end up being the one who loves the bf/gf more, or the other way around?
    state gender.
    I like girls that are loyal so i rather have them love me more than I would love them.
     
  2. khaotic

    khaotic Fobulous

    I prefer a relationship where I don't need to quantify how much one loves the other.

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  3. better keep a leash on them just incase.. ;)
     
  4. perfectguy4you

    perfectguy4you Well-Known Member

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    I think in a relationship, the most important thing between each other is "trust". You cannot tell whether he or she will love you more than you love them because different people have different perception about "love". Trust you feelings and trust your "partner".
     
  5. mr_evolution

    mr_evolution ( • )( •ԅ(ˆ⌣ˆԅ)

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    Yeah, it's hard to tell who loves the other one more
     
  6. hongkongboy

    hongkongboy Well-Known Member

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    i strongly agree, atm i think i love mine more than she love me XD
     
  7. lazyxbutt

    lazyxbutt Member

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    i strongly agree with all the above. everything is based on loyalty and trust, if theres no trust how can one fully love the opposite sex. if one loves another it will show.
     
  8. amazze

    amazze Active Member

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    Agree with Trusting posting above......cannot count who is loving who more. Only trust and give n take will work in a relationship no more no less. PERIOD
     
  9. Eloi

    Eloi Member

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    Comparing will lead to lots of argument, as long as the feeling is right I do not feel there is a need to do anything beyond just feeling it.
     
  10. xiaozhuzhu

    xiaozhuzhu Active Member

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    If have to compare who loves who more, wouldnt it be difficult to sustain the relationship? I'll say just give and take..
     
  11. hsuli84

    hsuli84 Member

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    i've been in both of that situations before, currently im a gf loving her bf, more than what he cares. I used to have an ex that loved me more that I loved him. I rather, find someone that would love me equally as much as I do love him. Being in relationships like this kinda sux
     
  12. [mJ9]

    [mJ9] Well-Known Member

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    Besides trusting,loving each other is the most important.
     
  13. Natsu

    Natsu Well-Known Member

    its hard to determine who loves who the most. i felt I loved my ex-girlfriend more than she loved me, because I felt i was putting more effort in. I shouldnt really think like that though, she told me to stop putting more effort than she is because she feels pressurised in reaching my standards, but I just said its doesnt matter and it shows how I treat her and it shows how much she means to me. I told her not to compare, just do what she wants and what she feels like. its not a contest.
     
  14. vangirl86

    vangirl86 Well-Known Member

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    You may think that you love him/her more OR less than he/she does; however, you don't know. Everyone has their own perception and expression when it comes to love. Just because he/she does not express the kind of love you want, it does not mean that he/she loves you less or more than you do. Sometimes the feelings that are hidden or not expressed fully is the love that all people search for because it's much more spontaneous (he/she does not know that their partner felt that way for them).
     
  15. winniieli

    winniieli New Member

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    ever since i was a little girl, my mom has always told me to find someone who loves me more than i love him. and thats the only way i can remain happy. i'm not so sure if i can trust her on that.
     
  16. lookout

    lookout Well-Known Member

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    Just listen to your heart... -^_^
     
  17. tricky7_

    tricky7_ Well-Known Member

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    You know that if you don't lover her as much as she loves you she will perhaps breakup or cheat on you because she doesn't feel that you give her as much love as she gives you. Love i mutual!!!
     
  18. erict1628

    erict1628 Member

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    You can't trust her on that. She's delusional on that part.
     
  19. jenkintsui

    jenkintsui Member

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    It's hard to say, and it's hard to tell sometimes who loves the other one more
     
  20. ellaanderson

    ellaanderson Member

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    Sometimes it's the other way around. Mostly I ended up with somebody who loves me alot.