So recently one of my friends found out that her bf has been cheating on her. she actually took it a lot better then i expected. she was majorly sad but didn't go crazy or anything. just broke it off with him. So my question is, have you ever cheated on your bf/gf and if so what are your reasons? just being my little curious self. lol i just don't understand why ppl cheat so much. if you no longer have feelings for someone why not just call it off instead of going out with someone behind their back? my friend was lucky that she wasn't too far into the relationship, but if that were to happen to me, i don't think i'd be able to deal with it the way she did.
Cheating physically is a bad thing not only because of the diseases that can potentially be spread, but also because it hurts emotionally. I don't care how well you are able to separate the physical from the emotional, but if you need to go out and cheat, that means that the person at home is not satisfying enough. For any gender, knowing that you are unable to satisfy your partner takes a toll on your self-esteem, even if there is nothing wrong with you. Your friend must be a really strong person for being able to deal with the situation in the way that she did. Some girls I know have sworn off guys because they have had their hearts broken one too many times... I've cheated on my ex before, but not without reason or because I wanted to see what was out there. I used to be a very spiteful person; *laff* if somebody did something bad to me, I'd do it back to them, only worse. Needless to say, my ex had cheated on me multiple times, but I told him that I forgave him, and we stayed together. I trusted him time and again, and he had proven to me that he was not worthy of such. So, I proceeded to cheat on him blatantly, to give him a taste of his own medicine. Even after I got back at him, I still hated him for doing things to me that I didn’t deserve. Of course, I don’t hate him anymore as he no longer holds a place in my heart, but as you can tell, I was quite young and ignorant back then (not that I’ve aged much since) *laff* This was at least a year ago…I’m not as spiteful now as I was back then, and I guess I can attribute that to him. Will I ever cheat again? Most likely not; too much time & effort involved, plus it didn't feel too good. I would've been much better off just ditching him, but I wanted him to know how it felt like. Nowadays, if a guy were to cheat on me, I'll ask him why, only to be humored by his excuses. After I hear the lame excuse, then we break up.
Someone's brain is obviously not in agreement with his fingers. *laff* Are you drunk? Whatever happened to that phone call?! haha...keeping me hanging like that -rolleyes Who do you think you are?! *laff* PS: Rootbeer wasn't an option...
Rootbeer, drink this or we have a problem.. this is not an option -lol. no i'm not drunk, just posted so quick n didn't realize my mistake. oh what phone call... ...uh... so uh yea cheatin bad... 3some good... better tell the girl your plan, before you end up with just yo hand.
wow, you really were a spiteful person lol but I understand how you feel. Must be a bummer to find out that someone you really cared about cheated on you. Do you still keep in contact with him? replying to the thread starter...nope, I've never cheated and don't think I ever will. It's such a horrible thing to do to someone. If you no longer have feelings for someone, why not just break up with them instead of wasting both your time? I just think it's stupid...
I've forgiven him, but I have not remained as a close friend. I wouldn't go out of my way to talk to him, but if I bump into him or if he msgs me (which he does), I'd be polite enough to talk and not curse him out. *laff* Trust is a big thing for me in a relationship. Once the trust is betrayed, things will never be the same. Girls forgive, but they never ever forget...
ahaha yes...my ex is lucky I don't know any karate, otherwise.....well, you can pretty much guess what would've happened to him. *laff*
I think usually it is the girl that cheats. They want to jump ships but want to be safely landed before jumping. Or some are just too mentally weak to break things off until the truth is found out. If a guy cheats, you probably fell victim for those attractive bad boy qualities in the first place. Every situation is different, but 99% of the time, it is just wrong and the person isn't even worth saying hi to.
Of course it's not just men who cheat; women cheat as well. Don't you guys watch desperate housewives?? *laff* However, it's not a matter of who cheats more than who, but rather about not appreciating what you have and being easily tempted. And it's not true with the once a cheater, always a cheater. I think that at one point in your life, you will eventually settle down and appreciate what you have.
