Hi everyone Just out of curiosity, if a girl always kind of stare at you, what does that mean? For instance, 1) when we are at university, we (including other students) were watching a documentary, and i noticed that she was looking at me 2) when no one was around, she was looking at me, with longer time....(i didn't look back, i was pretending to work on my computer) 3) When I looked back at her, we both kind of locked the eye contact, but i quickly looked away.. Does she have something in me? or Am I just being paranoia.....coz I know that some girls always like to stare or look....it's just because they were checking out on what people are wearing...you know? some people are very into fashion and looks etc etc Btw, i totally not good looking and casual at all...whereas she is very good looking and fashionable. I'm asian and she's western Plzzz help me out...Thxx! sorry if this is soo long Much appreciated
1) did you look ridiculous? and by that i mean.. were you dressed outlandishly or look just bad on that day? lol 2) maybe she sees something in ya . get up, break the ice and just speak to her casually during break or after class if you intend to befriend her at all.. or it just gets weirder and weirder by the day. have some confidence in yourself man. them white girls like Asian guys too
thxx for your reply... 1) I don't think I dressed up outlandishly, just top and jean, very casual.. I don't like being messy if you get what i mean 2) I tried talk to her, but mostly about assignments or uni stuff; so conversation end pretty fast. ... It doesn't seem to have other topic to talk about... n your right, it seem a bit awkward when nothing to chat Btw, do u think she's kind of a girl who always like to stare at people's dressing or looks..coz she's very fashionable and always like to go clubbing. And once, I heard her chatting about photos with her friend in the computer and she said "He's yummy!" (regarding to the hot guys in the pix)....this make me think "not sure what kind of girl she is?" from what she said, i don't think she, good looking and sexy girl would like me as I'm very typical person who is NOT good looking at all Again, Thank you soo much for your reply. REally much appreciated for your reply again! =)
all girls are concerned about looking good in respect to fashion and looks, but it varies depending on the girls themselves. if what you say about her is true about the whole 'fashionable' and taking part in clubbing, then yes definitely. you're probably over analyzing it, but it never hurts to make another friend. though, i wouldn't shoot yourself down like that lol. confidence can really attract sometimes as a good friend or relationship-like things.
Hey Dh_135 Thank you very much for your reply... I tried to talk to her...but i think i'm too nervous to talk or even looked at her....it doesn't seem to be myself when interact with her...maybe becoz she's quite popular n outgoing. Btw, from your female's perspective, does girls always like to go clubbing? I honestly didn't expect she's a clubbing person and always get wasted with alcohol because she's studying nursing. (not discrimination to people studying nursing...*just curious*)
haha, regardless of majors, who doesn't enjoy socializing with your friends in an environment that is essentially stress free and made for having fun? so yes, guys and girls i reckon would enjoy clubbing, especially if that girl is as popular and outgoing as you say she is. lol, try not to be intimidated because she's popular and whatnot, once you're in uni, try to forget about the whole 'high-school cliques' that stayed with you for the past 4 years. she's just an ordinary girl (maybe with a massive ego lol) also, i'm a guy lol.
Hey Dh_135 I'm soo sorry, I saw your pix under your name...so i just assume....sorry mate! So I talked to her today, mostly just about assignments and university stuff... but it's just very short and brief...the conversation doesn't even last long... =( I think... i kind of like her... The reason i'm kind of focus on her popularity, outgoing and clubbing etc etc, it's because for instance, IF she likes me, I don't even know if we would click as it doesn't seem like we both have something in common....she's popular, outgoing, always go clubbing etc etc, while i'm more quiet, reserved type, and doesn't go out much... I want a serious and long relationship, if it's just a fling or only last couple of months, i wouldn't even bothered...if you get what i mean.. this y i want to know more about what kind of girl she is....(popular, clubbing and wasted...) Thank you very much for your reply again... Much appreciated for more... =P thxx!
i'd say that you should just steer clear of the whole 'if she likes me' idea. i don't think that she's interested in you at all (no offense) but maybe you just stood out on that particular day. maybe it's because you were the only couple of Asians in that class, whatever it might be. i say this not because i want to offend you in any way, but i can tell you're looking for a more 'serious' relationship.. or at least someone whom you're compatible with. in this case, it seems that you are both the complete opposite of each other . she's the outgoing, popular, and more extroverted type of person, while you're clearly more conservative, quiet and introverted. i don't really think you two can really kick it off at all.. that is if you can even get her interested. but by no means you should avoid her though. never hurts to know too many people in uni and maybe she can introduce you to some more people! =D
Eye contact is one of the most poweful body language you can send to the other person, if you want their attention! Eyes can speak for words! They can also kill off course
