Okay .. I know people probably gonna lash out at me for this but just curious if others have the same feeling. I am married and all but seriously, my heart was thumping for this eurasian gal whilst picking up something quickly at Costco this evening. She has all the Asian features except her eyes which were light greenish. Very cute. I am not the type that drool over pretty gals and shit. I am not here either per se .. it's like love at first sight feeling .. the kinda that I felt for my wife. Is that normal? By the time, I was done paying and chasing after her to the parking lot, she was in her Acura car driving off. I was disappointed .. should've just called out to her and see if I can get her number. I was hesitant cuz there were too many damn ppl around and her girlfriend was right there. This was like the 2nd time I felt this way since married. I am not looking for or at anyone .. just kinda caught my eye out of the blue. Sigh .. I guess I'll never get to know her. I might swing by next Wednesday and see if she's there again. Wish me luck ..
aiii aiii aiii !! ofc you can make new friends. but dont forget your status !!-nono you are already married!
Dude it's not worth it, how will you be able to look your wife straight in the eyes. Its worse then going to the hookers, you are actually betraying her feelings. How the fook would you feel if your wife went chasing a man.
Wow, your life is filled with drama =P *it is like love at first sight feeling*, that is only your point of view. The thing is, you are just attracted to her, which is normal. I don't believe in that bullshit *one true love*, What if you stay at home are you going to find your *True love*, that is just some random feminine bullshit. If men had the chance, they would hump every attractive women and think like *it's like love at first sight*. However, you are married, you made a promise, and you have kids. Not worth to risk it all of that. Watching is allowed, just don't follow your dick -lol Resist the temptation
Love at first sight lead me to a road to disaster, just don't believe in that crap negi and also stick with your wife
all men are just the same the difference is that some of them "control" themselves. i hope u can do it as well.
honestly dude, you have a wife, and a family. why the hell would you want to give that up, unless your current relationship is deteriorating? i didn't expect this from you lol
OKAY ppl .. never in my post above did I mention about having sexual thought about this gal. I was mesmerized by her beauty for some reason but nothing sexual. At that very moment, I just wanna to get to know her and didn't think much more. I made the post to see if others have the same experience cuz I don't have this kind of feeling all the time .. like I said 2nd time since married .. it was weird. Dude .. I am not the type that think with my dick. Looking and knowing gals is not a crime. I guess ya'll think "gals" like that to have such perverted thought as first reaction.
^ Yes, you didn't stated you had sexual thoughts. But was I think is: you unconsciously were thinking about sex, your mind is saying: yes dude, that is some fine woman that I would like to make babies with. Attractive + *love at first sight* feeling, means you mind is saying: She has the right attributes and is compatible to mate with. *Looking and knowing gals is not a crime.*, True, not the case along with *mesmerized by her beauty* You won't lose it that feeling even if you are married or aren't single. Edit: If you find someone attractive/hot, you just want to have sex with her. [unconsciously][Not always the case] Along with the *love feeling*, you want to make babies with her. [unconsciously]
Look/stare/drool/whatever at the girl and move on. The title refers to your wife. I wish you luck and a happy life with your wife.
Why the hell would u even consider callin out to her and askin for her number ¬_¬ ... Next thing u kno ur startin an affair T_T
Sheldon: but we both know it only exists in contradistinction to the higher level distal cause. Leonard: Which is? Sheldon: You think with your penis.
lol you say you had no sexual thoughts but when you are interested in her because of the way she looks then what your mind is thinking she is someone you would like to have sex with. I mean seriously.. lol. I thought you would know better than this. You say you are just trying to get to know her, but for what? what is your intention? You even know yourself that it is wrong because you are married, obviously you are expecting that if you get to know this girl you are going to be ruining your marriage. Why would you give up your family this easily? Are they really not that important to you? Do you not care if they get hurt? Seriously, if you plan to do shit like this and hurt them you might as well hurt them now and breaking ties before you go off trying to get to know other women. Don't waste your time or their's if you don't think they're worth it. Ugh.
its cool if you have feelings like this when youre single but not when married. i have it all the time with female but after the lay it all goes away. its called lust and not worth shattering a marriage for.
you're a grown guy, why don't you just do whatever you want. Wether you listen to people's advice or you don't, you just have to deal with outcome simple as that.
