okay.. ive experienced terrible situations wif frinds.. frds who care nothing about u... only say are u okay? den leave wne ur badly hurt.. and ppl who only are ur frds to get sumthing outa u... but like if ur stuck in a croud of ppl who arnt really ur friends... wif no one who u can really rely on or talk to wen ur sad...or even like actually call a friend.. wat can u do? like serioulsy.. im living in that situation right now.. other than my sister. i can no longer trust anyone... no one seems to be trustworthy or willing to quit da drama and actually be themself ... they're always acting and not being realistic.. I NEED ADVICE lol -cry2
fearless.. its not dat i expect alot.. its jus dat they give me dis feeling dat sumtime is terrible.,. like.. ya.. >.<
sometimes there is no two way friendship...we tend to give but receive less in return..don't be upset as you can see their true colors...when you know they do not care about you you just have to think twice next time when they need to get something from you...you still have your sister though...
^agreed, move on! you may not trust people now, but if continue to not give a little, youll never get anything back and never have proper friends take the risk and maybe youll find great friends
@ berry, life is like this, there are times when you feel those emotions and come to realize that life is not as rosy as it should be. Just move on and maybe join some sort of clubs or organizations that you like where you can connect with more ppl with the same interest as you and who knows, maybe later on can be good friends?
@ Berry, don't feel bad about these things. Not many people are lucky enough to have friends who give as well as take. It's difficult to find people who do give a crap because, to put it bluntly, humans (in general) like to get something for nothing. How old are you anyway? If you're pretty young then to be honest, it is better you knew what life is like sooner than later. It's a harsh world. By no means should you ditch your current friends. They are still there to hang out with when there isn't the need for anything deep. I'm sure that in a given situation, they will be there for help. It just depends on what sort of situation will warrant their help. I've got a few close friends but out those friends, I can honestly say only one of them fulfills the criteria you've mentioned, that I can call her anytime, complain to her, be myself with her, and of course vice versa. Hope that gives you a bit of perspective as well as what others have said above me.
Well honestly it's not about quantity, it's quality!!!! If your sister is the only one that you can turn to with your problems than there isn't anything wrong with that. Chill out........... What you talk about sounds like some high school bullshit..... which was exactly my problem too...... I didn't make really good friends until I entered college.... Just be grateful you have your sis!!!
Agreed, I always say, i dont need a lot of friends... just a few very good/close friends are enough... the rest who are phony/fake just chuck em... no use anyway.. but i must say that most of my real friends are the ones i made when i was in highschool.. So most of em i've known for almost 10 years already >_< Anyway the so called friends... they only wanna have fun with u but when ur in trouble they wont have ur back.... cuz bad times show u who ur real friends are....
As you grow older and older, your circle of friends will get smaller. When you are in junior high school, you run around with like 20 people, doing stuff together, seeing movie and going ice-skating. In high school it goes down to 10 who you are close to. Finally it ends at having 4-5 really good friends that you are close to. What I'm trying to say is ice cream don't have bones.
well i guess ur right =D i have thought of that before........=/ lol btw.. dis happend in highschool LOL =P so just trying to make a new thread =OOOO ... now adays.. i only talk to my sister..and 3 other frds =P its just easier to communicate /.. and more friendly =)-clapclap
don't make the mistake of taking the word "friends" too seriously or even the "BFF- Best Friends Forever" crap.
wow just realise berry has exactly same situation as me lol and that was in high school as well xD Yeah I did move on and those friend that doesn't care much I seemed to stop talking to them. Only talk to few friend that cares lol
yeah, I only started socializing four years ago, so imagine my horror when I gradually realized how very little most people cared. I've rotated my friends every two years now.
