If you were stuck in the middle of friendship or lovelife, who would you pick? For example [and this is just an example, you can give others if you have better ones]: You really like this person [and that person likes you also] but your best friend also likes that person. Would you let your friend have him/her to keep the friendship or take him/her away and lose your friendship?
Friends always come first for me, no matter what. I rather keep my friends and lose lovelife than vice versa. Friendship wins, hands down. There was a poll like this at another forum, and the weird thing was that most of the guys chose love whereas most of the girls chose friendship.
i had a situation like this before. but we'd never let a guy come between our friendship. friends comes first and foremost. ALWAYS =)
if ur friends or lover puts u in this situation then they r not worth to keep... i'd kick them all out of my life...
if ur fd n lover don't get along (like mine) then just make sure u don't organise any gatherings together... when i c my bf i don't bring fds along... when i c friends my bf don't come with me... they don't force me to kick either one out of my life... if someone cares for u they don't put in into a awkward position
eh -sweat maybe I should have reworded. The situation is if you both like the same person, would you back off (like not flirt with the guy/girl) because you know that your friend also likes him/her? This is in the case that you don't know whether or not that person likes you or your friend. So basically whether you would fight for that person or just let it go to keep the friendship.
I dont know, I'm kinda leaning more towards my friend in this situation. Don't think I'd take the risk. Lovers come and go... friendship stays and very hard to find too.. true friends are rare gems But I kinda agree with Dawn also. My significant other should never make me choose anyway.
Friendship over love, come on be realistic. I believe most people would pick love. If they say they pick friendship then its most likekly a lie .
Iono, if she's not a serious gf then eff her. And if she doesn't like my friends then she wouldn't even be considered a serious gf. The girl I'm with now doesn't like my best friend cause she thinks he's always trying to hook me up with other girls or we'd just get into trouble when we're together. But if by "lover" you mean the person I really think I'm gonna mry then I would expect her to understand me by then and should trust me and not try to change me. Final answer: bro'z over hoez!
to me i think friends and lovers are equally important but if i have to choose i will choose friends...some friends will stick with you through thick and thin whereas lovers might not i think...
that's too hard of a question if the friend is your best friend, I wouldn't be able to decide lol. they're equal
love over friends... if love don't blind u then obviously u don't love that person that much... n friends should understand love > friendship... if my fd is not spending time with me as much as she used to then i'm happy for her coz obviouly her guy's making her happy that's y she wanna b with him... ur love might b ur life time partner... fds come and go... even if u develope a life time friendship they r not who u'll b living with for the rest of ur life...
I'm with you on this one. But if I had to choose: Before marriage: friend > lover After marriage: wife > friend In reality, none of my friends, nor my wife would put me in that situation. But mothers versus wife is a whole different story hahahaha.....
I would choose the lover, what kind of friend would cock block you? I'm going to choose lover again, all is fair in love and war. Between my group of friends, we understand sex is just sex. I would never try to hit on my friend's SO (Significant Other), but everything is free for all. I mean if I think a girl is hot, smart and nice. Then finds out she doesn't like me, wouldn't you want your friend to hook up with her then say some -censored you don't know?
its a question i dont think there could be an ultimate ans... well it would depend on circumstances wouldnt it??? just say... ur friend is about to commit suicide.. ofcourse u would abandon ur lover and go to ur friend but any how... i think ppl who abandon their friends for their lovers are 重色‘qing‘有 ：）
