The title I put makes it sound so serious, but it's not. So here's my problem: I have friend A who is friends with B. When I first met friend B (with friend A there as well), she said something perhaps insinuating something about me but I'm not sure. And I don't think I'm paranoid. Whenever I'm around A and B happens to be there, B seems to analyze me and is aware of me whenever I'm around any of B's friends which B probably thinks I don't notice, but I do. One time, I was rushing to go somewhere (from a place where A also happened to be and consequently, B) and B just stuck out a leg as if to trip me. I saw it and avoided it but still brushed past B's leg and B automatically said "sorry", although I don't think it was genuine. What is B's problem? The only times I've even seen B is the first time I met B and some other times when B is around A or other people we mutually know, but B seems to have something against me and I didn't do anything. Or am I really paranoid? And no, I haven't done anything about this because anything I do will probably cost me something.
Maybe B is jealous of you and A? Or maybe B is just a Bitch. Or it could be nothing at all, girls are illogical like that sometimes.
Girls are quite possessive in terms of friends, if B feels that you may replace her place as "bestest friend of A" she may get really hostile and competitive...
I'm younger than A and B and only got to know A this year vs. how many years A and B have been best friends? So I don't get why she would feel threatened. This just makes me look at B like she's really underhanded in trying to get me walk away from A. And it's not like I'm best friends with A; we just happen to get along well and are friends.
OK here's what you can do: 1. Ignore B and play dumb. 2. Talk to B, and say "Hi, have we got off on the wrong foot?" and if u feel like confronting her or sth, go ahead. This could make things worse as B will be defensive. 3. Greet B and try to get to know her (make friends). B might even be surprised to see you being nice and all that, she'd feel guilty for trying to make things difficult for u. Pretty soon, you might even be friends with both A & B and B will realize you r not trying to steal A away from her.
no, A is not a guy. guys have let me down too much for me to really put extra effort into friendships with guys, no offense to you guys out there. i'm just trying to enjoying my life peacefully without these people who are so insecure as to think i'm "stealing" their friend. how can you "steal" someone??
^okay, so i'm friends with kathy. one day while with kathy, jen talks to kathy and that's how i am introduced to jen. jen is the one who i feel hates me and the one who tried to trip me.
fighting for friends? I thought girls like to stick together when I was in high school (grade 7). there was this girl gang that likes to beat up guys. hehe
Girls are just like that, my sister's best friend got jealous when she started hanging out with a new girl. It's ridiculous.
sounds like a gang of lesbians, that actually happened in NY, a guy said something to one girl and they cut him.
wow. is it really not obvious? anyways, no, i'm not fighting over that friend. i mean, outside of school, i don't even hang out with kathy. we just get along well as classmates and friends.
