do u ever feel like .. whatever u do or say .. ur family jus thinks it isnt good enough so u do wut they tell u .. and wen u do they still say its not good enough .. and they yell at u .. and u jus keep quiet wid out saying a word .. cause u no its guna end up in a stupid fucking argument,but inside ur fucking pissed .. but ur not showing it .. ur jus blank .. jus numb from all the shit ur family puts u throught ? btw .. if u havet bin thru this .. i srsly dont needa hear .. ur wonderful fucking life .. kay?
my life is pretty much fucking awesome. I love it. Just don't take things too fucking seriously and you'll be O-Fucking-K.
^ i fucking agree. OP, ever thought of asking them to elaborate on the reason why they think nothing's good enough? just have a chat with them. you wont know the reason why they yell at you until you ask them to explain. you should also start by stopping with all the fucking. it's not healthy. it spreads nasty stuff.
I go through this all the time! My mother is a perfectionist, always wishing I could be just like her, but I'm not. You know what though? I still love her! Even if she's a total bitch, she's still my mother. I know she just wants what she thinks is the best for me, and I can't blame her for that. Just get over it.
err well here's the thing .. all parents are like that, asian parents at least. everyone has to go through it, it just depends if you let it get to you or not. if you know you're doing your best, then you should be satisfied
Well all parents want their children to be on the path of righteousness, so they try ways to get you to improve. But if you think about it, nothing is ever perfect
i think you're just over thinking it, yes they'll critize you, but in the end you'll only live the life you want to. so there's no point stressing and try and enjoy it as much as possible
you may think that they're not satisfied but asian parents are always like that just know that as long your doing your best you shouldn't let it get to you
yeah, Its happen to me like almost all the time dude, almost everything I do is crime from eating,sleeping,or playing etc Just don't fight it ,let them think whatever dude or random laugh.
doesn't every1 go thru that? plus arguments are fine... better than wen the one day u explode plus, if u've done something that u believe is right, and u've done ur 100% effort, then theres nothing to lose in the argument unless u know ur wrong then don't even bother...
lol i would laugh so hard if OP (and anyone else who thinks like OP) does the same thing to their kids.
lol...a very mad teenager eh... hmmm...well... what can i say... parents eh...family members always want the best for u... u might think everything u do is right but ur still young so u should listen to ur parents sometimes anyway, i used to tell my mum she can nag if she likes im just gonna my way! n sometimes it turned out to be fine but sometimes i wanted to kick myself in tha head for not listenin to my mum =/
I haven't had this problem since I was in high school... I realized that it's not that i'm not meeting my parents' expectations... it's that they're pissed because a) I should have done things beyond their expectations b) I should have done things b4 they told me to do it c) I should grow the fck up and learn some common sense after that last year of high school to first year of college... I've had a fairly ok relationship with my parents... seriously, it should be common sense to do things beyond expectations newayz... think of it this way... I'm hiring someone that can speak English... but if i get two applicants, and one of them can also speak Chinese, I'd take the person that beats my expectations/requirements... stop settling, stop arguing with ur parents... PROVE THEM WRONG... grow the fck up... o and i understand how parents tell u things and they could be wrong... but u gotta always remember... they are looking out for you... they're ur parents... technology and culture may change... human stupidity doesn't... just swallow ur pride and think about what ur parents say b4 u make what could be a poor decision...
According to my dictionary: Fuck: An expression, for example "I got my fucking foot fucking stuck on the fucking chair."
same . i no i love her .jus wen i wrote this i wus pissed . and to the other ppl who dont no im bitching . well try having eri thing u loved taken away frum u ~