my girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago and i havent talk to her at all but i've been stalking her facebook and blog for so long. I wake up in the middle of the night thinking about her. I am only 18 but we did live together for 8 months . I gave her everything that I could but shes doesn't realize anything and shes stubborn. I keep writing notes to myself things that I want to tell her but I'm not because I know she doesn't care and shes already moved on. We have been dating for a year and 2 months. I can't get over how she let everything go in 1 day. We even had an abortion together (I know we are irresponsible). She gave me her virginity even though I had already lost mine. I'm just hurting so much and don't know what more I can do.
ohhh...isnt there a 2nd chance? since i dunno the reason, i cant help ya ~ but if u want to get over someone.... go out with friends. tell your friends that u just broke up with your gf and u feel really bad... im sure, that they can help ya.... youre still young.... dont waste too much of your time thinking about this.... cuz later , you might regret it.... try to busy yourself, learn for the school or do sports....
guess what, you're not sure what to say but i dunno what to say to you too ... what's the cause of the breakup? that's the most important reason. based on the story you told us (if it's any true to it), you didn't cheat on her or whatever that may have broken the foundation of all relationship - trust. i guess perhaps is that you're DEAD BROKE on the $$$$....lol seriously if ya'll really went through all those you've mentioned above - cohabiting, abortion, virginity, etc, unless it's something/situation that's horribly irreversible, i can't imagine she would leave you in a heart beat without any second thought.
Hard lines mate, easy for people to say now and you've probably heard it many a time but don't believe, time is a healer and you'll get over her. Put it all down to experience and learn from what's happened. At only 18 you've got years ahead of you to find someone else, maybe even in the long run you would have thought it may a been a bit too early to settled down, sure sex on tap is great when you're 18 but what about experiencing other things and other girls, it's all part of life. Try and keep yourself occupied, phone up some mates and arrange to go out for a few beers, check out some new girls to take your mind off things, in time the pain will fade
You really rushed the realtionship by living together and the sex life. Were all you thinking about was sex? You gotta stop thinking with your pen*s.
Our relationship had nothing to do with sex, the past few months I haven't been into it and been kind of avoiding it. Long story short I was playing games and didn't spend as much time with her as I did before. We argued quite a bit over stupid stuff. But as expected we lived together and we can't spend every moment together. Been trying to get my mind off her, i go out almost everyday started to work out and stuff but at the end of the day I can't stop thinking about her. It seems each time it hurts more and more. Thing is i sacrificed almost everyting for her and she thinks i dont do anything for her. I didn't apply for school this year to get to spend more time with her and help her upgrade but now shes gone I feel like my life sucks. When I mean i gave everything to her i mean it.
Didn't talk to her for about a week and a couple days to let her calm down and I tried to apologize but now shes removed and blocked me from msn, facebook and everything. Don't know what else to do. I seriously can't get her off my mind and I don't want to lose her without me even trying.
You folks are too young. At 17-18 you folks haven't even realized what the real world is about. It will sting, but it's better to seek her for a final talk of some sort. Call her and try to just communicate. 1) Girls that just sleep w/ someone only to dash in that time frame just reflects who they are. Meaning, they aren't worth your time anyhow as you see. 2) You folks are awfully young. You got years ahead of you, but a relationship at that age is still a back seat to your education and work career. If you can't talk to her, why not go to her in person or something?
Fapping cures all, bring out an empty wine bottle and fap to it and fill it til you've either run dry or blood starts to come out. Thats when you should stop for the day. Rinse and repeat for 3 months and the feeling will go away.
Can barely sleep always waking up in the middle of the night thinking of her, but now I can't talk to her on anything but the phone and I know if I do call her she'll just ignore or hang up on me. Shes been writing on her blog all the time and it's like I was never there, she doesn't appreciate a single thing I did for her nor does she acknowledges anything i did for her, this is just killing me inside. =/
dude, you sound creepy. don't contact your ex, move on. Go hang out with your friends, go do some thing that will keep you busy. Go travel or some thing.
Ugh.. 18 years old. that's why this is called a puppy love. way too young to understand the "real game" . Go and hang out with other friends erased her and start a new chapter. the choice is yours, wanna be the ass or the hole! you'll be sorry if you live with a girl in such a young age. wait till you are mature, like in the college then you'll see more opportunity. dang it! Remind me of some facebook dumbass who keep on crying over the x girlfriend.!
:kekekegay: yes.. and no. ass will always be an ass. hole can be many hole. depends on how you use it.
At 18 years old? Love? LOL... it's like getting over an X-box addiction. Sorry, but at 18 the idea of love is so ill defined that most don't even know what they want. Like a video game addiction, one wants to play but not being allowed to is giving one grief. Oh, the disappointment and anguish... but, should we now call that love? To the OP: No offense but, if you really loved her, let her go. But you can't because, (surprise!) you really don't love her; you're just missing something that you want... Ie. this has never been about her, just your personal wants and needs. For you, she's not a real living person, but a walking talking emotional blow up doll; your comfort zone. Like you alluded to, you're stalking her facebook and blog pages, ie leaving electronic records that the police can follow up on if anything happened to her. It's become an obsession. What Lala_Bel_Tempo said is right. You're sounding creepy. Grow the hell up and move on. She's probably fucking someone else right now. If you really loved her, you'll be wishing she enjoys it. If you're pissed about it, well, then it's all about you, isn't it? -what?
