Started a t a friends birthday party. It was a pretty big party with like 90+ people but there was just this one girl that stood out to me(maybe it was the red highlights xP). every so often througout the party we would exchange a look(possibly jsut me rofl). and before the party was over i took the courage to talk with her. I never used to talk to girls but i was like whatever, ill probbaly never see her again. We chatted for about an hour, though the conversation was quite slow. Midway through however the birthday guy dragged me away and was like "dude she has a boyfriend", but i just answered "so what??" and we kinda just laughed it off. I went back to her and got her msn before we left. Its been a few months now and ive asked her out a few times but usually smth comes up. However i have gone out with her and some friends a few times and even met her bf lol. Thing is after all this time shes never mentioned to me that she had a bf, only when i was talkin to her on the phone and her friend at her house was like"are you talking to your bf??" she said no and she asked "omg is it a guy??!!!" and she said yeah so the other girl took the phone and was like "heyyy you know she has a bf right??" "so i just said, oh thats nice...". Yeah Even now, she just refers to her bf by his name if she ever brings him up and never calls him "my bf". What should i do?? should i be an ass and try to break them up?? should i just continue asking her out occasionally and see how things turn out?? should i just tell her how i feel and let her decide?? or just wait?. What other options do i have? Im just afraid of getting in the "friend zone" which i may have already fallen into. Any way to get out?
if you're just chasing a piece of ass.. move on... don't ruin the girls life and what could possibly be a good relationship, by you barging in thinking you'll be better for her...
No im not lookin for some ass hahahahh. This is first time i know im not just fkin around. Not litterally, ive enver had sex before. But yeah, i like her for more than just her looks unlike all my past times. Whos to say whos better, shes gotta decide, thats what i think =s. I know most of you will probably think im evil for trying to hit on someone gf. But what the hell else am i supposed to do. I never thought id get into this situation before. You gotta fight for the good ones right?? =/ duno
You cant break the 2 up b/c it will make u an ass. So the only thing you can do is wait it out. By then you would probably have another crush on another girl and still be frds with that girl you had your first crush on, or let the 2 breakup on their own and you swoop in for the girl
making a move on this girl will immediately make you a douchebag... dont.... the only thing you can do is wait... i suggest you just move on...
I agree..you should move on. You could be reading the signals all wrong. eg. her referring to her bf by his name doesn't necessarily mean anything more than the fact that she's just.....calling.....him....by.....his.....name. In the same sense that siblings don't always say my brother or my sister....
U know that song... What goes around comes around? U see... If she behaving like this in the relationship she has now...who says she wont do it when shes ur girl... and besides that.... so many fishes in the sea... why wanna catch one that already belongs to someone.
I think you should just keep asking her out and stuff but dont be full on she will get your hints and if she likes you more, she will dump her BF for you, if your just a friend to her, then nothing will happen and dont push it
yo.. dont make assumptions... just because she calls her bf by his name, doesnt mean that she likes you over him... and thing is, i got a few friends, they call their bf by names too, and we talk just like you talk, but we're just friends. perhaps she thought you just want to be friends with her. and yo, not only is the fact that if you screw up her life by asking her out, shes not the only girl whos gonna get beaten up by her bf... youre gonna get jumped too.. trust me lol dont mess with girls with bfs. dont ask her out.. you can talk, but talk less than how much her bf talks to her. ppl tell you to try, but i tell you not to. youre gonna get the beating of your life if you do. *fists* lol
I say move on. I got between a girl and her bf once--I didn't even know I did it, I thought we were just good friends. She broke up with her bf for me, and I felt like an ass, because I didn't want to date her, but she's dating someone better now anyway imho.
as every1 else has said, keep a distance if anything, just stay as friends only if shes willing to break up with bf to b with u, she can do the same later...
yeah mate you were in my friends position too. he was seeing a girl that had a bf but yeah i don't think he wants to go that route anymore, so they are just friends now. But yeah i wouldn't really advise on it, most likely she just treats you just like any other friends and if you let her know of your feelings, things might become worst. Just wait and see i guess.
you're an ass if u try to break them up.. and an asshole full of shit if u break them up and she gets together with you... My friend did this once and the ending is not like wat my friend expected.. if she can leave her bf and go for you, then she would do the same to you.. thats what happened to my friend and true that girl was a slut who would always break up and go for other guys
yea well, thing is my take on this gf/bf business is a little different from everyone else, or so i think. If things are gonna workout then things will workout eventually. If she goes onto another guy then well whatever, it was never gona workout in the first place, or ill still be her frd and she might come back who knows. Im not gonna wait for her and be emo, but things will go the way theyre gona go. If they were married thats a whole different story, but the reason u have gfs/bfs is to see IF u can get married, so there really is no obligation. I dont even mind if she sees someone else while shes seein me, its jsut not the same for the other people(well almost everyone) which causes problems. And anyway, the bf is a passive guy like me lol, hes not gona beat me up as i didnt beat my frd up last time when my gf liked him. Yeah i was never gona make them breakup or anything lol, that was just a random suggestion.
im with angie, she'll probably do the same thing if she becomes your gf. try break them up, worse thing is her bf would wanna fook you up but i dont think you would worry about that since your username is PSYCHO Assasin.
