IS it wrong for a girlfriend to have other guy friends. Like other guy friends that likes her. Hang out most of the time but the girlfriend claims just a friend. Is a person that hugs people a lot. When she hugs me, I don't feel any special than other. She hangs out with different guys (usually ones she's interested in but not enough to push it farther than the bf level) 1v1 sometimes up to the point where make them like her or get the wrong message knowing that she has a boyfriend. She's insecure and possibly wants more self esteem. It's not always guy friends but also have girl friends. Probably hang out as much as each gender. I just want some public opinions. And i'm not sure if it's good that she has close guy friends (she tend to say she get along with guys more than girls)
its a matter of if u can stand that or not? are u jealous? or do u mind? To be honest any1 can do watever they want, but at a certain extent there is also a bottom line. To her maybe chilling with a guy friend alone is normal, but to you it could be another story? At the same time, if she noes that specific guy friend likes her and she continues to send mis-leading messsages, to me there is something wrong with her. At the end its still your call to judge if its right or wrong depending your bottom line. If you can;t stand it then talk to her abt it. Her bottom line could be tottally different from yours, thats why communication is very important
I totally concur. The guy sounds like he wants to keep her all to himself and can't handle it when she's socially interacting with anyone else. At least that's the sense I get but I can't be sure because his English writing skills are really wanting; maybe he's not used to writing in English? At any rate, in general, if a girl likes a guy, she'll let the guy know. But if she's treating a guy like she treats all guys, then he's just another one of her guy friends, and not THE boyfriend, no matter how fervently the guy may wish... :stickpoke: Get over it and move on...
she prob does have a low self esteem problem. maybe she see's you as a person who will soon disapear from her life. i suggest you, go hang out with other friend girls. Sounds as if you put out way more than she does in the relation.
most of my friends are guys and before I got married we hung out one on one. there's nothing wrong with a girl hanging out with a guy. How do you know he's interested in her? Maybe they're just really close and you are misreading the situation. If you cant feel secure in your relationship with her then you shouldnt be in the relationship. If there's no trust there's no relationship.
i lost my girlfriend because i wanted to protect her from the players, now she gone i see her making friends with lots of guys, at the end of days i enjoy girls company and she enjoys guys. its down to the individual person, she dont want me in her life no more because she felt sufficated. i think its best to let her have friends boys or girls and not worry, cos u could end up with no girl to worry about. its not wrong to feel insecure as long as you remember we only belong to ourself and no one else
