(Girls) Where art thou 'MR. RIGHT'?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by mint_T, Apr 16, 2006.

  1. mint_T

    mint_T Well-Known Member

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    Okay, so girls...you know what kind of guy you want, you know what certain qualities he must possess, what his features are like, but where do you go about finding this 'Mr. Right'? Do you think he exists, or is it all just make-belief? Do you think the guys (you know, the ones who are sweet, smart, loyal, loving, wealthy, AND good-looking) in the movies actually exist in real life?
     
  2. shy

    shy Well-Known Member

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    I don't believe in Mr. Right. As you grow older, your expectations for a significant other changes as you change. What bothers you now may not be bothersome in the future, and what you like now, you may not like in the future. So for that reason, there exists only Mr. Right Nows.

    There was this guy I once met who was everything that I've ever wanted in a guy...

    smart
    funny
    independent -- meaning, he's able to hold it down on his own, w/o having to run home to mommy for everything
    outgoing
    good listener
    understanding

    & he was pretty hot too! But, there was no chemistry between us.

    So, quit looking for your Mr. Right!! You should cherish every relationship you get into and treat every failed relationship as a lesson in life. That way, you improve as a person... and whatever went wrong with your past relationships will give you a better idea of what you're looking for and what you're not looking for. :)
     
  3. shadow Thi3f

    shadow Thi3f Well-Known Member

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    Im not a girl, but I think this is absolutely true. I couldnt have said it better myself and this also can apply to guys. The "one" does not exist. Love is a numbers game. Seeking perfection from every person you share intamacy with only leads you to further disappointment.
     
  4. peachey

    peachey Well-Known Member

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    Hey, why don't you send him over my way?! lols jk :p

    But I definitely agree with you. There's really no such thing as a Mr. Right because people's standards/expectations are ever changing. And then there's that one quote:

    "It's not about loving a PERFECT person, it's about loving a person PERFECTLY"

    Yeah...something along the lines of that :)

    Heck, I doubt even Henney is perfect! (But he sure comes pretty darn close! -lol)
     
  5. loO4la

    loO4la Well-Known Member

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    Agreed. Really no such thing as a MR. Right or MR. Perfect. Those types of guys who've got the looks, the smarts, and the money are only in the movies...sadly...either that or they're already taken >.<
     
  6. AVANT

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    So the "right" person to you must have good looks, be smart, and have money... not to be OVERLY rude... but that sounds rather naive (if not shallow). -unsure
     
  7. 3ric_luver07

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    i dun belief in "Mr. Right" cuz it all just imaginary....and if Mr. Right exist...it wuld be a lasting on earth....or that person is really lucky
     
  8. there's no Mr. Right or Ms. Perfect... because people aren't perfect... now either you get those 20s on that Rang Rover or get the freakin' Yaris...
     
  9. Airree

    Airree Well-Known Member

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    o_O no one believes in a Mr. Right?

    I believe that there's a Mr. Right for everyone, just that you'll never find him, and if you do, well your damn lucky.


    and well, in that instance, I believe that there is always some one close to it, that you will think its him, but its not.