Basically fed up with the people in my life... Some of the so called 'friends' are just becoming too fake right now... In particular one 'friend' who is also a colleague... I went to school with her I've known for just over 10 years now have become quite distant... Like we are not as close as we were and I can feel friction between us... There has not really been any significant instances which has made it become like it has... Although she has been less interested and not really care about me... Like I can come in not very happy...She will ignore me even more... While other's who are just colleague's who I don't even associate with outside of work show concern... It's fine... I don't need her attention... But when you considered this person as a close friend and they don't even give a crap about you its like WTF!? Okay... If I've done something to upset you then say so cos I've challenged her about it before and it was 'fine' apparently... But you know I've tried to 'understand' if there was anything? But if she refuses to or acts like there isn't an issue then fine... I can go on and continue the way it is... I mean this has only happened during the past couple of months... I've noticed she always tries to butt in when me and another colleague are trying to have a conversation.... Any opportunity she see's us talking she will RUDELY butt in 'jokily' and totally interrupt us... Which normally is fine... Cos all three of us joke around all the time and stuff etc... But it again, in recent months has become abit much... I mean those two I suspected may have a hidden thing for each other... Nothing serious or dodgy... More like a fondness of each other maybe??? But the people they are... Nothing will happen plus he has a long term girlfriend but still... Sometimes I wonder if she's suddenly got jealous??? Although there is no reason to... Cos he is like a big brother to me... And we occasionally text outside of work but that's it really... Plus I'm in a relationship... So part of me thinks this friend has become jealous? But then I don't she why she should be cos she is quite a 'rational' person... And rarely lets her emotions control her in this way... But it's just quite frustrating and upsetting when someone you regard as your 'best' friend treats you so coldly and dismisses you... Okay... Just realised I've written so much so in short... Close friend I've known for 10 years... Also a colleague has become a b*itch basically towards me for no reason... I've questioned her about this already but she denied any problems... Maybe a sudden jealousy towards me and another colleague who we both joke and mess around with... I see him as a big brother... And we don't really talk outside of work... Plus we are both in relationships... So... I don't really know why this 'friendship' has gone downhill in the past couple of months... TBH I really cba with this crap... I'm not the type of person to chase after people and make them all happy and whatever... If you have a problem then speak your mind... If not then fine... I'll get on with it... But it is upsetting when someone you thought you were close with suddenly treats you like crap... </3 Sorrrryyyy just needed to vent!!! ><"
dont worry....all the girls i kno of....they're all the same...beetch about this, beetch about that....no wonder they're experts when it comes to writing....
Your "friend" most likely has lost her way without knowing. People tend to forget things. At a certain age, lifestyle changes. From what you've said, I think your "friend" needs something. Attention? Wants/Haves? Jealousy? Competition?
lol OP is either a girl or a gay dude... 99% certain OP is a girl It sounds like she wants his affection, whether she knows it consciously or not. His girlfriend is the biggest roadblock to this, but she probably can't get to her to deal with her and it would be very difficult to change that situation. In her mind you're the one trying to monopolize the friendship with this guy that she likes (whether platonic or romatic) so she tries to be in the spotlight in his eyes, at the expense of your feelings. People aren't always rational... can you say you are? We do some ridiculous things sometimes that in retrospect might seem unnecessary or pointless. At some point she might look back on how she was acting and wonder what she was thinking, hopefully she won't have completely destroyed your friendship by that point. Of course this is all from the perspective that it's all her that has changed and this guy is the catalyst. As I have no knowledge of your personal life I can't say for sure. Maybe you did something that she felt was uncaring to her and she decided she doesn't want to be your friend anymore. Who knows. Friendships are complicated things.
