Alright here's the deal. My ex-gf from about a month ago dumps me. Goes out with this dude for a week, and she gets dumped. This was like last sunday she calls me up monday telling me she's all mad and sad. I kinda feel bad for her and stuff. She finally gets to the topic, she has to go to thsi "ball" type of thing at our college alone and she doesn't want to...so she asks me. I said I'll get back to her because I hafta check on the work status that night and I promised her I can go. I talked to one of her friends and she said that they talked and this asshole who dumped her made her realize how great of a friend I am and wanting to build it up again. I kinda feel like I'm getting played. What you guys think?
All bets are off when the relationship is over. I'm sure that you promised your ex that you were going to go to the "ball" with her during the relationship and not after. All promises made during the relationship are moot when the relationship itself is over. She didn't think of you and your feelings when she dumped you, so why be considerate to her? Unless you want to get back with her, you shouldn't go out of your way for her. If you do go out of your way for her, you're just setting yourself up to get played. Besides, she was the one who broke up with you. It's a little too late for her to realize now how great you are; she should've known that while she was still with you.
Lol what's with all these thread about girls takin' guys for granted... Yo, umm damn I lost my train of thought... but hey if the sex was good, go holla back at her. And if ya didn't get any before, gettin' back with her would definitely get you some.
if your generous, then give the girl another shot. She'll only appreciate you that much more. Unless she's retarded then just leave her ass. and Knoc....... what's with all the........ nowadays!! Don't Knoc my style now... -lol
>< I'm not a guy but I'll put in my input. If you still like her. Give her another shot. If you don't, forget it. If you feel sad for her, forget it. She's being selfish.
It weird how you still talk to her after shit like that....SAY NO. If you want her back...SAY NO....show her you're not just some random guy who would say yes on everything. If you don't want her back well....just say NO.
You’ve got yourself an attention whore right there. -lol I have no sympathy at all for these types of girls. Obviously, she is just using you as a replacement/substitute for her lost boyfriend. I agree with shy... Since she was so inconsiderate of your feelings when she dumped you, you don't need to feel any sympathy towards her either. You can go with her to the ball I suppose, as friends, but I personally wouldn't try to kick off another relationship with her. Realizing how great you are AFTER she leaves? WTF? Well tough luck; what's gone is gone. She's had her chance. Move on, bro. There are plenty of better girls out there… The world is huge. Explore, but always be prepared to walk away. Another solution, though...would be to dump and NEXT her fast and brutally. -devil Call her up and agree to get back with her. At the day of the ball, pick her up and be sweet to her for the first couple of minutes... Then, when you arrive at the ball, tell her the relationship ENDS here and now. Say goodbye and walk away smiling like you just won the lottery. If she cries and drags you, say you gotta return some videos so you don't have time to talk. She will be crying and getting ALL the attention she wants now. -clapclap
dude be the bigger man, and don't try some shit like that... I'm sure she's in a lotta regret already, no need to kick her while she's down... and we don't really know the reason why she broke up with Felix, so we shouldn't all take his side... but maybe you are the better guy in the situation, so just break it off with her nicely... And I'm tellin' ya you'll probably end up gettin' a lotta action if you get back with her... So, give us an update on what you decided to do.... -boat weeee I'm sailin' -lol
