Guys how would you feel

How would you feel if your girlfriend always and constantly wants to and keeps on going to concert with guys? Like always. And you've never been invited to any?

I'm just wondering how would everyone else feel if they was in that situation.. -innocent2

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The thing is, is that most of her friends are guys. As her old female friends left to a different college ect and therefore she barely speaks to them anymore. So now she's literally always surrounded by guys..

For this certain time, she's the one that came up with the idea, other times, I think it was other guys.

I'm actually getting annoyed at the fact that she's always going to these concerts with guys, and like I literally find out she's going to them last minute. ..and that's my next question.. would you guys prefer it if your girlfriend told you everything before hand? For this certain example, would you normally have your girlfriend tell you she's going in advance? and who's she's going with ect?

Also, and people that say that she wants some time away, I barely see the girl anyway. And we've been together for 1year+..

 

i would become jealous.

 

Jealous, but what kind of concert. Something which you wont like?

 

Nope. Something that I DO like. =/

 

friends you dont know..?..mebe you should just ask...tag along mebe...?

 

don't think that would be happening, what if your girlfriend saw you always going clubbing with chicks and she wasn't invited. i don't know either of you or the full story but she may be taking you for a mug.

 

definitely some jealousy, if she was just going to concerts with her girlfriends and didn't want me along i'd understand it as wanting to do some stuff without me around and with a different crowd, however if its always with other guys, then there's a problem lol

 

Well if she's been invited by others then I guess I could see why she wouldn't invite you if there were not enough tickets. But if that's the case I would still be feeling jealous if it happens often enough. If its like a no frequent thing then I wouldn't mind that much.

Does she know you like going to concerts? Maybe you gave off a bad vibe or something...

 

You sure it's ALL GUYS? no girls at all? perhaps she wanna have fun with other people instead of sticking with you all the time?....some people might got bored for a while and try to experience new things with new people, they wanna have 'fun'

1st thing jealous, then try to figure out the reason why, GL

 

ask her why she doesnt invite me, punch her in the face if she thinks im lame or no fun or we

 

The thing is, is that most of her friends are guys. As her old female friends left to a different college ect and therefore she barely speaks to them anymore. So now she's literally always surrounded by guys..

For this certain time, she's the one that came up with the idea, other times, I think it was other guys.

I'm actually getting annoyed at the fact that she's always going to these concerts with guys, and like I literally find out she's going to them last minute. ..and that's my next question.. would you guys prefer it if your girlfriend told you everything before hand? For this certain example, would you normally have your girlfriend tell you she's going in advance? and who's she's going with ect?

Also, and people that say that she wants some time away, I barely see the girl anyway. And we've been together for 1year+..


And LOL at DOSUNX! Punch her in the face? Really? :rl: ..although I'd NEVER hit a girl. :angel:

 

I'd become jealous, and I'd confront her with it, before I get annoyed and angry.

 

To answer your question I would feel more comfortable if my GF told me in advance. Which is what generally what happens. Not cause I force her to. Its because we just talk a lot and stuff like that pretty much just gets out there.

Anyway. I don't think you should tell her to tell you in advance if she is going out with guys cause then she might think you are trying to keep constant tabs on her. I would suggest having a conversation with her and tell her that its kind of bothering you. Don't act mad or get frustrated with her. Talk to her about and listen to what she has to say. And don't accuse her of anything.

Its best not to let this just go on while you are feeling uncomfortable. It really hurts the relationship and last thing you wanna do is keep it all to yourself till one day you just snap.

 

You can just talk to her about this. Maybe she doesn't know you would like to go with her. I've got more guy friends than girl friends, but it's no problem to take my bf with me when going to chill with my friends.. Just TALK... COMMUNICATION is very important in relationships!

 

I think you have a valid reason to feel angry/jealous/confused; however, like others have said, the best option would be to talk about it. Nothing good can come from harboring these feelings.

 

everyone else already said it .. you gotta talk to her .. tell her how you feel about it .. communication is important .. if you care about her and want this relationship to last, then you gotta start expressing your feeling .. if you can't even be yourself and say whatever, then you should break it off and move on with your life .. cuz i know thing won't last .. it will explode .. just a matter of when that will happen .. lol

 

have you told he you might want to go to these concerts? or have you told her before you dont really want to go to them

 

communication my friend, talk to her about it instead of ranting on here

 

your probably better off not knowing what goes on when she's hanging with the guys bc it'll just spark the green eyes

 

LoL, punch her in the face! Wow. Is she really ur gf? Maybe u should find a diff gf man! Im 4 real too.