me & my gurl been go out for like almost a year. but it seem so fuk up in the past couple months...i mean, it's seem so fuk up...the reason that she always want to be spoil, like i couldn't promise to do this things as ( errand boy ) for her. she'd throw in a fit. fuk man....should i get over her or what.........really need advice from guys above & beyond tips......
yea. tell her to do the same 4 u. Like tell her u wan some "sex " stuff in return to c how she likes it. LOL
haha, I know those kind of girls....I'm kinda similar to them...in a lot of aspects... yeah they will throw a strop. if u cant handle it, believe me u shud just call it quits... or...u cud try to play her at her own games...but chances of her upping her games n u two end up having a big fight is likely... talk to her? tell her what u think and get her to understand that the relationship is two way. then she would realise what a selfish cow she is or sumtin. Xx Sandra a.k.a Shini.D xX
I am a girl and have a boyfriend. A relationship takes two people to care for each other, not one. She should be grateful for what she has instead of demanding this and that trying to get spoiled. If she gets spoiled, you should too. Either ways, she isn't worth it ~_~
Some girls be like that.. always gotta do things for her cuz she spoiled n lazy... see this is why.. Girls are Evil..(reference to previously mad thread).... Tell her how you feel and if she still whines.. leave her..
all girls want to be pampered. it's up to you to control the pampering! if you have been pampering her all these while; and now she's spoilt rotten; then u have no one but yourself to blame. pamper but not to the extent that you feel like an errand boy! there's difference between pampering and being suckered!
i think if she likes to be spoiled it should work both ways as its only fair, i think you should get over her as she isnt worth it becuase all shes thinking is her self and not considering your feelings
i say u should tell her straight, girls do like to be pampered but if she's takin it too far just tell her, u been together long enough to be honest...if she don't change her ways u know what u gotta do...afterall u did give her a chance
ai a relationship is like a pair of scales theres gotta be a balance if your unhappy then yeah you gotta speak up for yourself
well relationship go both ways... you do something for her .. she does something for you.. pampering itself is not bad, i see a problem if she asks for too much; if thats the case for you, then i would say you should find another girl
haha. I know this girl that wanted a diamond ring from her bf. So her bf told her she get one if she gives him a bj. LOL
Well it depends on what the errand is in my opinion. If its really small and doesn't take too much time but ur just being lazy about it then i would be on her side. However if shes just asking for favors without doing any for u then i would leave her. Most of the time women that become spoiled during a long relationship is because u, the guys, spoil them so watch out gentleman we are part of the problem.
You spoiled her and now she doesn't know her role! lol. Stop doing unreasonable errands for her and if she throws a fit, just throw a fit yourself and dump her!
i'm so impress to see all these feedbacks from all the families in the forum....thanks for all the advices.........
well...spoiling a girl can be a good thing and a bad thing, i think the first question you should ask yourself is are you tire of her? and do you want to spoil her? and even if you do spoil her, what do you get out of it? well to me personally i spoil my girlfriend alot, and i know at times she expecst alot, but you have to remeber if someone expects alot from you and you can do it, it shows them that you willing to try hard and go to that point for that person, and at times is good because to me i think girls loves to be treated like a princess, like guys has to give them all the attention and wants to be pampered by guys. i think is good because my ex i pampered her alot and gave alot of attention to her but basically i was whipped but now we are not together and till this day she still tells me she still loves me and misses me because of all the things i did , spoiling her , she tells me no one else can do that. see is a good thing because the more you do it, and when you don't do it they will realize what they miss, like people say once you have it you don't want it but once you dont have it you want it. i don't know if im right maybe this may not help you but some girls wants to be spoil those are just gold diggers but you can tell.
My .02, Women just like your shadow. After her, she will run away. If you run, she will be right behind you. Think about it.
I would personally tell her 2 FUCK off Ain't worth the trouble. Luv is about 2 person n NOT 4 any selfish brat like her
