Broke up with my gf for a month now. I know that breaking up is the best for both sides. But can't get her out of my mind! Still calling each other very often. She still wanna be friends. Thinking of stop seeing and calling her. It makes forgetting the 'feel' much easier. Asked friends about their opinion. They could not imagine seeing there exes (typical guy thing i guess). I shared a lot with my ex so don´t wanna loose contact. Do you guys (and girls ofcourse) think that i should stop seeing and calling her?
well if you want to move on then i will say yes, just cut off all contact with her. Of course if you or her don't have any more feelings for each other then it will be easier to just stay as friends, otherwise things will just get messy.
Trust me, It's better to not have contact with ur ex if one of u guys still have feelings for the other. It will save you a lot of drama and will make it a lot easier to let each other go and move on. I know that it will be very difficult but it's the best thing to do. Maybe, after a while when you guys have both moved on you can contact eachother again or something?
erm depend on urself,sometime even u stop contact u still gonna miss her...well i hav been there b4,lasted 2yrs still missing her ^_^
u still love her. So u will not move forward until YOU decide inside yourself that it is friends and ONLY friends that u r talking to her. NO other possibly that u will hook up again. Besides that, you ar hooked and basing yourself on HOPE
life can be troublesome when these kinds of issues show up. just hope that whatever decision is made, it's for the best. maybe you guys will get back in the future. who knows. only god knows.
yeah agree never hook BACK up something has past....btw still love her doesn't mean wan to b with her again also...LoL
Of course he will miss her in the beginning... Just go out and have fun with ur friends. Trust me things will get better! Always stay optimistic ^^
Like everyone said, its gonna be hard at the beginning but if you know and feel that its for the better than let it go man ... let time set in and hang out with your friends, it'll get better ....
same situation as you man...just try to move on no calling or seeing just makes it much more harder and more upsetting
I say take break away from her. A week, a month, however long it takes you to be ready to talk to her again. See what happens then. You never know, it might be better to leave her as pass or maybe you guys well be able to be friends by the time your ready to talk to her again. My ex and I are the greatest of friends right now. Exs makes the bestest (i know that not a word) friends because they know you so well.
You can't have contact with her for a while, or else you can't break it off. lol trust me I've been there.
its really hard this :( if you decide to break up all contact you might lose her as friend.. but if you want to forget someone the best is to break contact yes... it takes time to forget about someone.. you need to be strong tho, to keep not talking to her :O but before you do this, talk to your ex... so she will understand why you dont talk to her anymore..
Sounds like a good suggestion to talk to her abt it. Sounds like she was the one who initiated the break up though, so it will be easier for her cos she must have tot things through. Now is the time for you to sort ur tots. I'm sure she will understand.
