we always hear ppl telling us how my bf/gf cheated on me... that darn biatch/bastard that stole my bf/gf...!!! so i thought it's only fair to hear both sides of the story... if u have been involved with someone that's already got a bf/gf was it painful?? did u know he/she was already with someone all along?? did u end up being with that person??
that happened to me once. but then it was long ago.. i was with a guy and i didnt know he had another gf.. n i kinda ruined their relationship... and the gf hates me like hell now cause of that.. so i broke up with the guy.even though i broke up with the guy and they were together for a while...they still broke up. i felt mad at the guy so thats what made me broke up..and also we didnt have many trust in each other so i was about to break up with him anyways. so i didnt actually cared..no pain in me :]
the guy told me he doesn't have a gf... so when we started dating he then tells me his ex gf can't let him go and his parents love her to death as if she was their own daughter... but he kept telling me that the've broken up... she was in canada n he's in syd... he kept saying he'll never go and settle there... and he doesn't want to bring her here unless as an overseas student but they can't afford to have her here as an overseas student... when i found out i tried to break up but he wouldn't let me go... aiya... i felt so bad... felt like i'm stealing other ppl's guy coz that girl didn't know he was dating me... she kept sending him sms telling him she didn't wanna give up...
when i found out i tried to break up but he wouldn't let me go... aiya... You are the one who choose to break up with him or and he can't stop you to do if you decided so.. Luckly i'm not involved into something like that because it seems to be really complicated..
There was a thread similar to this one that was created a while ago which I responded to. I'm just going to copy&paste it here so I don't have to repeat myself:
Involved with someone else man is not good for a woman, but definitely involving with someone else woman will most likely be big trouble for any man. Well, I did it before and the thrill was terrific but not anymore. Darn dangerous. Life will be much better without getting involved with anyone who is already attached.
theoretically speaking u r 100% right... but if that was really the case there wouldn't b so many cheatings going on... it's like... u really really really like somebody... ur heart is telling u that u wanna b with him forever but ur head's telling u it's not gonna happen n that guy tells u he wanna b with u too... n so u tell urself... ok 2 against 1 so u end up staying with the person -noclue
