Have You Ever Been Backstabbed By Your Friends?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by mint_T, Apr 14, 2006.

  1. mint_T

    mint_T Well-Known Member

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    For me, I know that some of my 'friends' talk crap about me behind my back, but I don't really care because I know that they are not my real friends. However, sometimes I do get pissed off because they go around spreading bad rumors about me and try to make me look bad. My true friends tell me that I should just take it easy because we're bound to meet these sort of people sometime in our life. So I guess it's not really that big of a deal? lol anyway, do any of you guys have friends who've backstabbed you, or that you have backstabbed?
     
  2. yapchunhui

    yapchunhui Member

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    this happens to me all the time...when they are in front of u they wont talk bad about u...but when u are not wif them...they will always do that...this is nature...mayb this is part of human's life
     
  3. shy

    shy Well-Known Member

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    Many say that I've backstabbed a friend, but I see it as it wasn't any of my business. My best friend was dating this guy who had a girlfriend. The girlfriend happened to be this friend that I 'backstabbed'. Apparently, I was supposed to rat out my best friend to this girl because her boyfriend was cheating on her w/my best friend. I see it as none of my business.
     
  4. jello

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    yes...but I always like to give them a benefit of a doubt. If those friends are important to you, you should give them another chance
     
  5. nunubutt

    nunubutt Well-Known Member

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    if they're good friends, u'll know it. For me its easy as that. but for me i give lots of respect to my friends, therefore i command a lot of respect from them, at the same time i rarely share secrets with my friends. Somethings that are discovered, most of the time others dont ever need to know. The less that is known the better off the collective will be in my opinion. Then again im not much in the spotlight so i dont have th burden of this friend cheating on that friend and stuff like that.
     
  6. goo wak jai

    goo wak jai Well-Known Member

    Yeh man i've been backstabbed b4. This girl asked me out and i said no. Then after school some of my friends called her and pretended it was me and told her that i would go out with her. i found this out the next day and the girl really thought that i meant it but i didn't. This took like a week to sort it all out. I didnt know who it was but i found them in the end, it was like one of my best friend and my other friends.