Having a relationship with someone in your office

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by monkeybrain, Oct 5, 2009.

  1. monkeybrain

    monkeybrain New Member

    4
    26
    0
    Is it ok to have a relationship with someone in your office in your department. (you may have some work interaction with him/her sometime but not all the time?

    What are the goods/ bads?

    Or should we try to avoid relationship in the office. Thanks for everyones' advises....
     
  2. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    good thing to have a relationship with boss is that you get a promotion lol
     
  3. -Tisken-

    -Tisken- Well-Known Member

    oowww kdotc..... soo cheap ~

    if u really love each other, so go ahead.... the good things is that you can see each other everyday...^^
     
  4. iris

    iris Well-Known Member

    296
    53
    0
    i'd say no. seeing the same person everywhere will get on your nerves. plus if either of you have bad work etiquette or are in a competitive field, then shit will hit the fan eventually. it's happening to a friend of mine, and she hates it.

    what happens if you guys get into a fight outside of work? etc etc
     
  5. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    WHY NOT .. of course to make sure it doesn't interfere with your work.
     
  6. xicyeex

    xicyeex Member

    9
    26
    0
    wouldn't matter if you guys don't cross the line on what's persoanl matters and work related matters..
     
  7. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

    3,913
    377
    52
    I love office chicks...
    Yet again, I did not answer the quest ^^
    w00t 2,900 -_-
     
  8. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

    863
    68
    0
    very taboo

    :facepalm:

    you prob know why already :)
     
  9. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    no ... but i guess you're implying office sex is good.. lol
     
  10. ralphrepo

    ralphrepo Well-Known Member

    5,274
    459
    249
    Never shit where you eat.
     
  11. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

    863
    68
    0
    i believe when i say this and i represent most or some people that you do not want to see your bf/gf/wife/husband working in the same office as you.

    what i've heard, people get into arguments for this reason.
     
  12. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    good: u can go to work together n have lunch together n shit

    bad: when u break up with him/her n have to see his/her face every single day after that... (N)
     
  13. Tiger King

    Tiger King Well-Known Member

    477
    53
    0
    Things like this only works in The Office, the TV show.
     
  14. brown_bear

    brown_bear ☆‧° ☆﹒﹒‧ ☆ ﹒﹒‧☆‧° ☆

    8,870
    467
    21
    you ever heard that line: 'dun eat where you..poop'....-lol
     
  15. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    ^ i think ralph already mentioned that .. lol
     
  16. bingo_2007

    bingo_2007 Member

    8
    229
    0
    Well if he/she is hot, I don't think you can resist the temptation.
     
  17. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

    584
    68
    0
    Just personal choice...
     
  18. kitty.kat

    kitty.kat Active Member

    30
    31
    0
    I would stay away...seeing each other everyday, every minutes create lots of problems. Everyone needs some me time.
     
  19. BestOffer

    BestOffer Well-Known Member

    1,285
    288
    10
    good: office sex is advanteous
    bad: getting caught in the act
     
  20. personally i don't think it's such a good idea... people gossip too much in the office... if u show up at work not looking too jolly ppl will go "oh i wonder if they had a fight last night.... rah rah rah..." as if they are watchint a tv drama

    and if it doesn't work out u'll have to face that person everyday at work... plus because u see each other at work all the time there isn't any space for u to miss each other...

    i don't work in an office personally... but i got fiends do... and they tell me after a few rounds at work drinks you fully find out who slept with who and stuff... and i don't think that's something you want all your colleagues to find out...