so, recently this guy asked me out and i said yes. He's like my first boyfriend; I only met him two times before he asked me out but i thought he was very cool and funny so i went out with him but when i got to know him, everything just went bleh but i still like him. Later on, we went on like dates to start knowing each other and stuff. Then one day i was suppose to hang with him like afterschool and then my friend HAD to tag along, she just like followed us. When we were walking, she kept talking to him and it seem like they had a lot of fun and they evven shared a drink together! (i didnt' even share a drink with him yet) but yea so after that day i was kind of upsetl; i didn't telll him but i was just acting "weird" when i was takling to him on AIM. After that day, we started to talk and see each other less times than before. Then on his facebook, he like deleted everything on his "relationship" status thing and then my friends like imed me and started to ask me if he dumped me or not lol but yea anyway. So on that night, he called and i told him about it and then he suddenly asked me who i hated in his schoool so i told him and then he told me that they were his "bestfriends." So then, i was shocked because i didn't know and yeah. I mean i don't mind his friend and all but now since he's not iming me or calling me i have a feeling that he wants to break up or something. Since' he might be too "scared" to break up, iono if I should break up with him first. He's not evevn picking up my phone calls because i want to acutally talk to him about this but gosh he doesnt pick up! This kind of pisses me off really bad and I have no idea waht he is thinking, i mean he never tells me if he's mad or sad and all he does is call me mean for no reason or maybe not that i know of. The sad part is I dont even see him anymore and it seems like he doesn't even care. 0_o this is long. ahh, i didnt make this clear o_o; when he asked me out, we only met twice but after that we went out like everyday!.~~
so basically you've hung out like 4 times, IM'd each other and watched each other's facebook?... it doesn't sound like a super serious relationship to me, so hopefully it wont be too hard to get over, cuz it looks like the guy has definitely given you the cold shoulder. you kinda have two options, let it fall apart, or just break it off. most dudes are too scared to end a relationship so I wouldn't expect much action from his end.
Ummm.... you only met him like twice, so technically, he cant really be considered your bf. Anyways, thats besides the point. IMO, you should just forget about him since he doesnt bother answering your calls or iming you. I think the part that he asked you who you hated at school is only an excuse but i could be wrong. Hes definitely not worth to keep or waste any time on.
you know what... the only option now is to forget about him and move on. hopefully you learn that in order to have a smooth relationship, you shouldnt go out with someone you barely knew. i say know the dude for a while.. make sure hes the type you want to date. dont say yes to random guys youve only seen twice. if you rush head first into relationships while barely knowing the dude, youre just asking for trouble.
This is really sketchy, it seems to me that you two were "dating", and just started getting to know each other. Well, this isn't what I consider to be a "romantic relationship" yet. Did you guys kiss yet (seal the deal)? Have you guys hung for seven hours yet? If not, I don't think you guys were in a relationship. It was more like a friendship.
He's definitely trying to get rid of you by making you break up with him. If he's that effed up to you just find some hot guy and start flirting with em infront of him and when he acts like he wants you back tell him he's cut.
It's better for yourself to forget him and move on. He is just looking for an excuse (about that friend stuff). He isn't worth to make yourself crazy girl
yes....please do get over him... so he doesnt like u cuz u dont like his friends? then he doesnt really like u enough anyways.... and crap ur friend sounds like a weirdo...who comes to another ones date uninvited and tries to steal the attention from u weird weird weird....
yeah, now i really want to dump him because he tells me that he's always busy and that's really making me mad. I dont want to waste my time on him but everytime when i want to break up with him, i hesitate and I end up not saying anything. I think its because im scared and it'll make me feel bad and I feel like if i really dump him, everyone is gonna go talk behind my back making me feel like i'm the one at fault so I'm just very confused right now. =/
err.. i dont think you guys are really together. more like dating. well, do what you feel is best. u dont have to think about what others say. ultimately as long as you're happy its good.
You dont need to feel bad to break up with him. You live your life as you want, and besides, the fault is not yours that hes a total jerk. Next time you see him, just tell him that its over. PA got your back. -flow
ok so ur not breakin up with him cuz ppl will talk behind ur back? ppl talk behing ur back anyways...if u break up with him at least u wont be seen as the dumped one... not that it should matter but....hey....u dont dig the way he treats u now anyways...so u better end it this isnt going anywhere
Strongly agree. If you worry about people talking about you behind your back after you break up with him, just think of what they would say if you stay with him. The most important thing is that you're happy. If you don't like staying with him, don't force yourself to. You're just making life harder on yourself.
Don't be confused, why should you. Just leave it. Nxt time when you see/talk to him, say to him: it's over. And that's it!!! Move on girl, he is just playing a game so you are feeling guilty. He is just a stupid guy!
wat was his staus on facebook before?...from your description i did not see and signs that you guys where actually bf/gf.....i mean he asked you out (on a date) a few times, but did u guys actually kiss, hug or even tell each other u "like" each other, .... seems to me like he asked you out and he is now backing away....also seems like you ain't too bothered about this guy so I think you should just forget and move on
