Help me>.<

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Sephiroth, Aug 15, 2007.

  1. Sephiroth

    Sephiroth Well-Known Member

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    Yo guys....first of all
    i am new to this forum>Hi to everyone!
    now..this is my problem lol

    i met this girl in some course i am taking......she is damn cute
    but i duno how to start talking or start anything with her
    any idea what i should do?
     
  2. dim8sum

    dim8sum ♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪....

    dont over complicate a simple situation

    just start a normal conversation with her. Since your in the same course, thats already something to talk about
     
  3. Sephiroth

    Sephiroth Well-Known Member

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    i did talk with her
    but should i ask her for her number or sth?
    cuz i am not sure.....
    i realli duno what i should do now lol
     
  4. Caterwauler

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    I think it's better if you ask for her e-mail.
    Then maybe start talking to her on MSN or something.
    Personally, I find it freaky if a guy asks me for my number. (Oh yes, I'm a girl)
    Don't worry...you've got plenty of time, you've got as long as the course lasts.
     
  5. Sephiroth

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    and there are only 2 lessons left for my cours= ="
     
  6. Aznguy123

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    Oh easy...... any homework comign up?? if there is and you have trouble with it ask her to help you. at a local starbucks spend like 30 mins if your not done yet ask for messenger or email for more help at home.

    OR

    ask around?
     
  7. wheezo

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    damn, i hope there are some cute girls in my class... lol probably not, stupid engineering classes!

    anyway, yeah, you can talk about anything related to class... and calm down.
    like what caterwauler said, u can ask for her email... maybe for hw help or something.

    edit: 2 lessons??? u should've asked for help sooner! lol
    just ask her for her myspace lol, or ask her for a cup of coffee or something =PPPP
     
  8. Sephiroth

    Sephiroth Well-Known Member

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    i wish i met her earlier
    she changed her course time
    so she is like a new student in my class....

    OMG what should i do!!!>(dying)
     
  9. ProjectD

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    ^ lol you gotta take a easy, before you even think of rushing into things haha, well neways since you've been at least talking to her, say lets keep in touch or something, but dont ask for number, ask for like myspace or e-mail. lol and do you have picture i want to take a look ahah xD
     
  10. Sephiroth

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    picture!!?
    i wish i have a pic too>.<
    i am still thinking of a way to ask her for msn..
    its not easy lol(for me)
    i am juz afraid to ask
    cuz i always think that she might ask me>why do u need my msn.?
     
  11. ProjectD

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    so your not even close at all, have you found out that she liked anybody? if not, most best best way since you've only known her for however long is just to confess, it gets harder if you know her, im serious so CONFESS! haha seriously -.-"
     
  12. Sephiroth

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    thats too fast
    i juz met her for 3 days and i started taking to her on the second day>and she somehow ignored me
    on the third day i started to talk to her again
    and she didn't ignore me..instead she made jokes and we had a small chat
     
  13. ProjectD

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    see.... shes getting to know you cause if you wait till the last course its sometimes means your screwed over so talk to on the next course and see if you can sum up to courage to ask her out, you could probably be like

    "hey,*name*, i know that we've only known each for like almost a week, i know its a bit sudden but i cant help but notice how cute you are" and then she will probably be like aww or eww screw you xD, but i highly doubt she will say screw you but yeah haha
     
  14. Sephiroth

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    lolz
    she is kind of girl who studys a lot and do things seriously
    i think i should spend some time
    so that we can know each other better
     
  15. ProjectD

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    act stupid and ask her to tutor you haha best way :] , but your idea is good too
     
  16. Sephiroth

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    haha thanks
    the problem is==
    i am better then her=.=
     
  17. ProjectD

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    ahah that sucks then, but you could always find out where she gets picked up after the class and hang with her
     
  18. wheezo

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    just small stuff, after class, ask her for a cup of coffee or something, and have small talk... or walk and talk and ask for her email...

    DO NOT TELL HER SHE"S CUTE! she'll just be like... oh thanks (and probably heard it from a bunch of guys already so you don't stand out at all)

    and he also said "act" stupid haha...
     
  19. Sephiroth

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    thanks wheezo
    i am thinking of...
    trying to ask like 2 classmates for a drink or sth(of course ....one of the classmate is that girl)
    but i duno whether she might be free or not
    i think this is all about luck
     
  20. wheezo

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    good luck with that!

    I was in the same situation...
    saw a cute girl in my class... started conversation with class homework and stuff (this was after class when i saw her walking) so she walked and the conversation just lead to where u live etc. and she was takin to bus so i offered to drive her home, so we just talked on the ride but i didn't ask her for her number or nething... i think she'd probably get it, but i didn't really want it.

    if she's not free to have a drink, then just ask for her email or something to keep in contact... easier if it's the last day of class since you probably won't see her after.
    it's okay to get rejected, better to have tried than live life knowing what could've been. plus if she rejects u, then u'll never see her again probably so who cares. =)